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    rollie-pollie Posts: 53, Reputation: -3
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    #1

    Dec 30, 2009, 12:58 PM
    Super mega big mistake
    I am going out with my boyfriend and my ex was still in love with me and I was too and then I was talking to him and the next thing I knew we were making out I was cool with it just because he wasn't having a good time for like the whole week and then this other guy that likes me he and me like each other and I said I couldn't be with him and the my boyfriend started cheating on because he said he had the right to cause I kissed someone else then he dumped me and now he won't stop calling my house and the guy who kissed me went to chicago and I miss him and the other guy is now ignoring me and I need some advice how to set some things striaght:confused::confused::confused::confused::c onfused::confused::confused:
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    #2

    Dec 30, 2009, 01:04 PM

    Did it ever occur to you that you don't NEED a guy in your life ?
    You sound as if you feel some sort of desperation to be with a guy.
    Try going it alone for a while and learn about you and know that NO guy will ever "complete" you.Only you can do that.
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    Dec 30, 2009, 01:38 PM

    This is so confusing. You need to re-evaluate what is essential to a relationship and what is completely inappropriate. Your boyfriend cheated on you, and you made out with your ex while you were taken? Both of you need to get your heads on straight. When ANY relationship is THIS complicated and screwed up, you either need to get out of it, or get some professional help.
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    Dec 30, 2009, 02:54 PM

    Stay single for some time and grow up,that way you won't be making super mega big mistakes.
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    Dec 30, 2009, 03:52 PM
    It would help to understand your question if you attempted to use some paragraphs, periods, sentence structure etc. There is not one period in your whole post.

    Might be a good idea if you are in school, to put the boyfriend drama on hold. All three of them. Leave them alone and do other things with girls your age. Keep busy doing healthy things- go skating, swimming, read, have some fun.

    These boys sound as immature as you are, so don't expect much from any of them, and expect their behaviour to be similar to your own.
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    rollie-pollie Posts: 53, Reputation: -3
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    Jun 26, 2010, 12:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by artlady View Post
    Did it ever occur to you that you don't NEED a guy in your life ?
    You sound as if you feel some sort of desperation to be with a guy.
    Try going it alone for a while and learn about you and know that NO guy will ever "complete" you.Only you can do that.
    Good good
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    Jun 27, 2010, 07:45 PM

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...archid=6552990

    Stay single and date them all since you can't make up your mind who you want to be with and when you are with someone you get distracted by others rather easily.

    Lots of growing to do, but get the party out of you first.

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