[L85]

As above really...

I met this girl around christmas through some other friends and ever since then I seem to be getting on really well with her, we see each other a lot with friends and she often texts me all the time, thing is she is really really friendly and I don't know if she just wants to be friends or maybe more,

What I want to know is how do I make it obvious to her that I like her without saying anything as if I do it may cause problems with us being friends, and how do I know if she likes me in return??

Thanks :)

[Homegirl 50]

Why can you not stay as you are since you seem two enjoy each others company.
If it is to become something more, it will happen.
If it ain't broke don't fix it. Enjoy the friendship.

[friend4u178]

Ask her if she'd like to go see a movie or something similar , that way you'll know if she's willing to spend some alone time with you.

Then just take it from there , slowly.

[talaniman]

If she will go out with you or spend sometime with you then you have a chance to show her. Ask her out! Take a chance.

[positiveparent]

Time to walk your talk, ask her out on a date, do it casually or if it helps make it appear to be a joking way, and gauge her reactions.

Or just go ask her outright, what's the worst she can do, say NO, you've much to gain. So go for it. Or you might miss the boat if some other admirer gets in first.

Nows your chance so go for it..

Good Luck..

[Bluerose]

Be good to her but don’t smother her.

[L85]

Hmmmmm this has all gone abit strange since Friday... I'm still speaking to her abit but she seems really distant and not very chatty at all for some reason. Now I know I always get really paranoid but the only thing I can think that has happened is maybe she has got an idea that I like her and isn't intrestead so she is trying to make it obvious by being very distant. Both of her best friends went on holiday on Friday for a week so that may be getting her down, still don't think that is a reason to be funny with me is it? Any ideas what I should do know. Shall I justy forget about her and not atempt to talk to her anymore as she might not want me to? I'm really confused and not very good in these situations

[Homegirl 50]

Maybe her mood has nothing to do with you. Just back off a bit.
She knows how to get in touch with you.
You can ask her if she is OK and then leave the next move to her.

[talaniman]

Ask her out, forget the idle chit chat. Then you will know what the next step will be.

[gracebabe]

Hmmmmm this has all gone abit strange since friday... im still speaking to her abit but she seems really distant and not very chatty at all for some reason. now i know i always get really paranoid but the only thing i can think that has happend is maybe she has got an idea that i like her and isnt intrestead so she is trying to make it obvious by being very distant. both of her best friends went on holiday on friday for a week so that may be getting her down, still dont think that is a reason to be funny with me is it? any ideas what i should do know. shall i justy forget about her and not atempt to talk to her anymore as she might not want me to? im really confused and not very good in these situations

I honestly think you should tell her u like her but also say if you don't feel the same way just say u don't want it to ruin the friendship cause she could be thinking exactly the same way you are and that way neither of u will ever no! :) x

[L85]

I would love to tell her, but so far this week it dosnet seem to be going well at all, she contacted me constantly up until last weekend then absolutley nothing at all, I can't seem to work out what has happened :S

[gracebabe]

Then just ask her what's up? Just say uve noticed a difference in her behaviour, trust me if you don't ask don't get basically its eating you alive not knowing so what's the worst that can happen if you ask her... nothing major... so go for it even if it does make it weird for frist couple of weeks she will soon get over it and be back mates again... but its better than living in what if's :)