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    Jun 22, 2010, 08:34 PM
    Ex girlfriend to fall back in love with me
    We were together for a little over a year. And she just lost feelings over time. So I love my ex girlfriend and still in love with her. She told that she loves me but not in love with me. If there is anyway to get her back, would it be trying to be her best friend or cutting off contact and hoping she really misses me, or another method?? Thanks
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    Jun 22, 2010, 09:17 PM

    Screp,

    When you really want something and it isn't coming to you the very best thing you can do is let it go. You don't let it go so that it comes back to you. You let it go because there is something in your thinking or in your approach that is pushing it, or something as good, away.

    Let her go, move on with your life. You will either meet someone else you like as much, or she might even come back. But, if you think about her coming back, she won't.

    You have to let this one go.
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    Jun 22, 2010, 09:25 PM

    That's what I was thinking. She wants to be friends but I want to be more. I think I'm just going to let her have what she wants and let her date other people and I'm going to do my thing
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    Jun 23, 2010, 05:59 AM

    That's a great approach. Give her what she wants, and when you stop wanting more, maybe you can be friends, and if your not ready now, leave her alone until you are.
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    Sep 15, 2010, 04:42 AM
    Question about starting again with my ex girlfriend
    We had a big falling out and we didn't speak for about a month and a half. Then we started talking and things started to seem right again. She was smiling and I was too. Well we have been talking on a regular basis for about a week. We have actually been staying together at night for the past week. Well the thing is, sometimes she seems like she's interested and other times not. Im starting to get the feeling that I want to kiss her again, but I don't think she wants to. I just want to know what should I do. Should I ask her if I'm wasting my time, should I just go for it and kiss her, should I just stop talking to her because its not going anywhere, or what. Any help would be appreciated
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    Sep 15, 2010, 05:00 AM

    Why not communicate with her and simply ask her where she thinks the relationship is headed?
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    Sep 15, 2010, 07:21 PM

    Ask her what's up so you will know what she thinks.
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