[onewish91]

Okay, So . I'm young . Very .
& I know your mother and Father say not to have sex until your ready
But my mom and dad where out of town and I had a guy friend over .
And a kiss , turned into more . We didn't do nothing really .
I wouldn't even call it sex but he did have yaknow in my yaknow .
But I made him stop , because it hurt ? Realllly bad .
But I felt bad , I wanted to make him happy . And I started to cry in front of him .
& he said he wasn't mad . But I could still tell he was .
And even I told him no I didn't want oo , he didn't want to not let me not want too .
He wanted me to at least try ? I told him no . And he finally got off me .
Then he left the room and went to sleep with my brother ?
Me and him used to be best friend sense we where every young .
Now I feel as if I messed everything up .
Please give me some advice , Please .
What would you do if you where me .
PLLLLLLEASE .

[talaniman]

Stop trying to please a dufus boyfriend and do what your parents told you. If he can't understand a NO, and be cool with it, then he is not your friend, just a horny dude taking advantage of you being a friend, and your parents being away.

That why they tell you to wait until you are ready, not you body, but your mind.

Your body is not for making someone else happy at the expense of your own feelings .

[AandZ4ever]

Why would you give up such a gift, to a jerk like him? Your very young, and just because your parents left doesn't mean you can leave your morals. You made a big mistake. I wouldn't worry about having a friendship with this idiot, as much as I would about losing something you can never get back.

[Clough]

Hi, onewish91!

How do you feel about yourself now, please?

You can move on with your life anew, you know!

Thanks!

[redhed35]

if he had his yaknow = penis,in your yaknow= vagina then you had sex.

even for a short time,there is a chance you could become pregnant.

sex = babies.

as hard as it is,tell your parents,or an adult you trust.

[positiveparent]

Don't let this happen again, you run the risk of getting pregnant and if you do so at your age not only are you too young you'll lose out on the best years of your life by having a child to take care of.

[Homegirl 50]

Sounds like you had sex, unprotected sex at that. Unless he used a condom.
Is the guy a friend of your brothers? How old is he.
Keep an eye on your cycle. This is what happens when you have sex.
Talk to your mom about what as happened and stay away from that boy

[S SID]

Ok, if he wanted to carry on then there's a very good chance he didn't yaknow (/orgasm) inside you but might be worth getting a pregnancy test or see if you have your next period is on time. Secondly, if the guy isn't happy to wait until you're ready then the guy isn't worthy of you, move on, you'll know when it's right and with the right guy.

[onewish91]

if he had his yaknow = penis,in your yaknow= vagina then you had sex.

even for a short time,there is a chance you could become pregnant.

sex = babies.

as hard as it is,tell your parents,or an adult you trust.

Me again , - He used a condom .

[Homegirl 50]

How old is this boy?
He obviously came prepared. Is he your broher's friend and how old are you?

[S SID]

If he stopped to put a comdom on then you both knew what was next so the only thing you need advice on is should you still be with the guy and I don't think I'm on my own when I say no, he's not worth it if he doesn't want to wait until you're ready.

[Homegirl 50]

Me and him used to be bestfriend sence we where every young .
Now i feel as if i messed everything up .
Please give me some advice , Please .
What would you do if you where me .
PLLLLLLEASE .

You have not messed anything up. You changed your mind and said stop and you have every right to.
If he is truly your friend, he will not be upset and he will not try this again.