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    ggreeson1953 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 19, 2010, 07:25 PM
    My 20 year old son
    I have a son he is now 20, went he was 14 I put him in a boys home near us to get him help, but he kicked in a door ,ran away 3 times, the 3rd ime was for 3 days, he'd been on he streets, went they found him they called me in for a meeting, they told me that they couldn't help him any more, from there he went to a school for 6 months, they tested him and it showed that he was in the lower level of 60, then they put him on a out door living place were the kids lived out side in a tent that they made from the woods, they did everything outside, he ran away from that place too, and again they called me to come get him, he was 18 then, now he is 20, and on pills,smoking,drinking, stoled a gun from his stepfather and fired it, no one got hurt thank god, he has gotton 2 speeding tickets in the pass 2 months, he does not work, he is on disablily for adhd,add,bypolar,and they say in his test from MCV a virginia state hosp, that he was mildy mentaly retared, he is taking every bit of money from me, and it's really getting bad, I'm broke. Dead broke. No one will help me, and I don't know what to do, I'm affaid that he is going to end up in jail or dead. If anyone out there is a chrisine person, please tell me what I should do, it has gotton so bad that I have plan to leave the state that I'm in and not tell anyone were I'm going just to get away from him, I can't stand to see my child go thur this, his life is going to hell.
    I know that there may be notthing that I can do since he is 20.>Removed<
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    Jun 19, 2010, 07:42 PM

    Please clarify the statement that "he was in the lower level of 60"... You note that he is on pills, I assume not prescription? But you also note that he has been diagnosed as ADHD, ADD, and bipolar. If so when and by whom? Does he take medication for these conditions. If so what medications and who furnishes them? Where is he residing currently, your home?
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    Jun 19, 2010, 08:14 PM

    Does he steal money from you, or do you give it to him? (You mentioned that you are broke.)

    Is there no psychiatrist or social worker in charge of this case?

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