[Doodlehelp]

So this is how I start I was a jerk and she wanted me very very bad I liked here from the beginning but I didn't want a relationship with her because I didn't want to get hurt and I didn't tell her that . We been flirting for some months now a year probably but more and more serious like saying our feelings for each other we had very many arguments and so but we always pulled threw and got over it and the last week I really wanted her so I said I don't care I love her and went out with her and we were making out she didn't want me to go I had to go after 3 hours we weren't going to see each other for 3 days and in that moment I saw how much she meant to me and I to her I saw that she really likes or loves me I don't really know but a guy ho doesn't like me said some nasty things to her about me and she believed him so she didn't talk to me those 2 days and I didn't know about it . After the day we got together and she heard that nasty things she went to a party and got with another friend and now they are togheter I MEAN LIKE ? IN 2 days she gets over me?? She won't speak a word to me she makes out with him in front of me she doesn't want me to talk to her and I said it that I didn't do anything and its just lies and she said it was to late I was a jerk and now I don't know what to do ! Should I give her SPACE AND TIME ? Or should I just admit that I was wrong and she didn't like me as much as I tought ! It kills me when I know I love her and she doesn't want to hear from me and it kills me to see them togheter I can't just simply can't see them togheter it brakes me because I`m in love with her ! I told her I wanted to talk to her and explain why I was like that I told her how much I care for her and she didn't even wanted to talk back to me I told her I want to meet her and talk 10 minutes about it she didn't want she blew me of and got together with my friend and licked him in front of my face with no concern that I was there and didn't even look at me like I was invisible she agreed to see me tomorrow to talk because I wanted badly but she said nothing you will say will ever change anything so I told her that I tried and did everything and if that's it then OK I can't do more so what should I do let the time pass and give her space while she is with my friend and act happy and not misrable like I am right now ? Its killing me and need help with this right now please

[liz28]

What kind of friend is he if he would date your ex? Especially when knowing you isn't over her yet? I think this girl knows how to pull your strings and does things to get you to react. So with that being said you need to leave her alone and stop trying to get her back because if you don't it will only lead to drama and more headache.

Sometimes in life you only get one shot at something and need to know when to let go.

[Doodlehelp]

He doesn't know we were togheter and if she just wants to pull my strings if I leave her alone don't I still have a chance that she will come back ? Or she doesn't want to cause I don't know how she can get over me in 2 days and I thinks its inposible

[liz28]

There aren't guarantees that this girl will come back to you. You said your friend didn't know the two of you were together but you know the two them are together so isn't that enough for you to move on? BTW, in this world anything is possible.

[Devorameira]

Seems like when she heard about the "nasty" things, she made a final decision to break it off with you.

If she's decided that it's over, there's nothing at all you can do to change her mind. Whining and begging will do nothing but force her even further away from you.

All you can do is move on and make a life for yourself without her. Maybe (but maybe not) when she sees that you are moving on and are happy about it, she'll think further about losing you.

[Doodlehelp]

I hope so I can move on but I really like her and I feel that she likes me even more but I starting to doubt myself and I know I shouldn't cause I`m mostly right I thinks she's doing this for revange or for me to feel sorry cause you can't break and move on in 2 days nobody can sorry that I`m not keeping a long story short but I like more answers more ideas teoryis cause its intresting and it doesn't bring me down just boost me up :D so feel free to say what you think and thanks for your replys

[talaniman]

Really sorry guy but, a female who can dump you in two days for a friend of yours, is not the girl for you, and wasn't that into you to begin with. I don't care what gabble-dgoop she fed you, or how she made you feel.

Even worse a friend who doesn't know you were together before, is a crock of crap!! What were you some kind of secret lovers or something?

This is a female you disappear from altogether, and get your life in better order, and start with friends who know if you have a girl or NOT!!

Chalk it up to experience, and put this behind you. No ifs, ands, or butts!!