[gabgondella]

My boyfriend of a year dumped me 3 weeks ago. We talked on the phone about it a week ago and he explained why he couldn't be with me, then we talked about normal things for awhile. He was quite talkative and didn't act like he wanted to get off. He even gave me advice about this guy I went on 2 dates with (dont worry I won't pursue a rel with him, don't want a rebound just went on 2 dates) so I guess he doesn't want to be with me. I then hinted I had to go and he said "yeah we have been talking for a long time I should too" I asked if we could be friends and if I could call him from time to time and he said sure.

He told me his Tweets were funny, so I added him on Twitter yesterday. I saw his most recent Tweet which I was sure was about me and it was mean. So even though he never added me back, I tweeted something egotisitical about me (he has an ego I thought hed appreciate it) and he responded back "I respectfully decline" and then blocked me. I then left him a voicemail saying I was just playing and nothing I put on Twitter is serious, and he called back saying his first tweet had nothing to do with me and this is why we couldn't be friends and such. I said Im sorry won't do it again and Id call him in 2 weeks.

I saw this morning an hour after our phone conversation he added me on Twitter (I haven't added him back) and he responded playfully to my egotistical Tweet. His BFF also added me too but Im sure that has nothing to do with him. And my ex also only adds friends to his list, not people he doesn't know. He actually only has 7 on it right now

[Clough]

Hi, gabgondella!

A good sign for what, please?

Thanks!

[Fr_Chuck]

A good sign that he is using all of this to hurt you more, to play with your emotions and to keep you from getting over him and moving on

[talaniman]

Yes it would be if you can act like a friend, and not like an ex still carrying a torch.

Or an over emotional female with false hope.

Or someone who craves the attentions of an ex, to keep them in their life because she hopes he changes his mind.

Or someone who gets carried away with themselves. If your not any of those, then yes, it could be seen as a good thing.

Who really gives a rats patoot what an ex thinks, says, or does any way??

[jmjoseph]

May I ask how old you are please? I'm just checking, because this type of post may better be served to be in the "Teens" section. Most of us here cannot decipher the "Twitter/Text" mating dance.

I will say however that you should not put any interest in what this guy does, or doesn't do. Go FORWARD in your life. He is past tense. This is like putting sour milk back in the fridge, saying "HMMM maybe this will be OK next month..." The relationship ended for a reason. It sounds like he doesn't respect you too much.

There is another guy out there that you'll know how he feels from the moment you meet him.

Good luck.

[gabgondella]

I am 22.

[positiveparent]

Lots of people add ex`s as friends on these social networking sites, it doesn't mean a thing they mostly do it to make themselves look more popular.

Move on with your life, and let him do the same, he's not going to get back with you, he's just boosting his own ego, and apparent status on these sites.