[Pooh-Bear]

:confused: Hi I'm 4 months pergant and I'm 15 will be 16 in feb, the father is there for me but he never talks to me about the baby he always start to get upset his parnets know and are there 100% same as mine I'm not in school right now because I was having bad sickness for the 1st 3 months so the school took me out and are going to be put me in a program when I turn 16 were I can do the work at home and hand it in to the school once a week I'm not that afraid of having the baby I'm more happy my mother had my brother when she was in grade 9 and she has her own business and we live in a nice nabour hood my brother is in the army so I not afraid she never even finshed grade 9 and she rased my brother on her own then met my father about when my brother was 2 and my mom and dad had 2 other boys together and then she got her tubes tide but still had me my brothers are very protective of me and they want to meet the father of my unborn but I'm to scared to bring him over just because when I told them I was pergant they flip out I take all my vitames and see the docotor once a month and going for a sex ultar sound soon I do not like the father mother when I'm there at his place she will not talk to me just say hi and bye she gives me the dirtest looks she runs a day care and when the baby born and I start going to work she wants to wacht it I rather pay for sitter then aloud her to wacht my baby but the father and me are fighting because I hate one of his friends and do not want them to see the baby when it born should aloud his friend to see the baby or not? Another question is I love his dog to pieces but his dog is very old and has a bad hip and if you touch the hip it will snap at you I told him when the baby is over there not to aloud the dog around him/her and he told me his dog can be around it when ever it wants what should I do about that like he doesn't under stand that the dog could hurt the baby it very old and should be put down

[J_9]

Hun, I moved your post to relationships since your question has more to do with the relationship of you and your boyfriend than it does pregnancy questions. You should get some great answers here.

[tamed]

I'm not quite sure exactly what it is that you are asking but here goes...
For starters I have to ask you if your boyfriend has made any demands on what you can and cannot do with the baby, for example, whether some of your friends and family cannot see the baby?

[richsaha2007]

For the dog, you need to explain to your boyfriend that it is unsafe to have the bay around the dog. He needs to understand that you are just looking out for your unborn child. You need to tell him that if he doesn't keep the dog away from your baby, the child will have to stay with you. Don't allow him to make decisions for you. The baby is yours too.