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    #1

    Jun 10, 2010, 02:15 PM
    How will I get him to talk to me again
    I met a guy a while back we met up a few time's
    But the last time I met him augest last year he asked me out(sex)
    I said no because I wasn't ready.
    So I left he called me and told me to wait
    When he was near my mom shown up in her car so I had to go with her
    I texted him and she sory and asked to meet again but he didn't answer!
    But he kept talking to me now and again online:) and I would see him on the street and he would say hi
    As time past he stopped
    When I go to town sometimes I would see him in his car or across the street
    Just a few weeks ago I seen him in town he was across the street when he seen me he just stared not in a bad way he was smileing abit. I wish I could have just went up and talked to him he didn't even come over to me and I tought he would.
    Now I don't know what to do to get him to talk to me:(.

    Please help!
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    Jun 10, 2010, 02:19 PM

    Could I just ask what age you both are?
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    #3

    Jun 10, 2010, 02:20 PM

    Were both 17
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    Jun 10, 2010, 09:50 PM

    Is this the same guy as the one who's friend you flirted with ?
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    Jun 10, 2010, 09:50 PM

    The only way to know for sure is to ask him.

    Why not approach him, say hi?
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    Jun 10, 2010, 09:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by aimee_tt View Post
    Is this the same guy as the one whos friend you flirted with ?
    Yes it is
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    Jun 10, 2010, 09:55 PM

    If you like him... Go tell him.

    If you don't... Just be polite to him but stay away from his friend. You hurt his feelings.
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    Jun 10, 2010, 09:59 PM

    Thanks but I think he still mad at me for flirting with his friend so he might not talk
    I will tell him tanks
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    Jun 11, 2010, 01:46 PM

    You could try laying off boys all together for awhile until you get your education up to speed. Once you have mastered proper english then you can think about dating again.
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    Jun 11, 2010, 02:06 PM

    Reading your post made my head hurt. You need to use proper spelling, complete words and sentences, and proper punctuation on this forum.

    Why are you worried about what this guy thinks? You don't like him, so it shouldn't matter.

    How old are you?
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    Jun 11, 2010, 03:31 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ClueLess033 View Post

    What will I do??
    You will use correct English before you get sensible answers.
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    Jun 11, 2010, 03:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ClueLess033 View Post
    Ok ..well this guy i know ask me out about a year ago..
    i dint go with him because he was just being too serous bout it wich freeked me out..
    so
    i was talkin to his best friend online he asked me out but i couldnt say yes because another guy ask me out too so i told him i wud tink bout it..
    when the guy seen me talking to his best friend he got mad and told me to off and called me a whore
    now every time i see him in town he just stares at me like hes madly in love with me but he wont talk to me because i was flirting with his best friend!! Just dont get him:$

    What will I do??
    I'm going to fix your post for you. We don't allow chat speak on this site. Ever! Use the best English you're capable of, the best punctuation and sentence structure you're capable of, and use full words.

    This is a better way to write your post, so that everyone can understand.

    Ok, well this guy i know asked me out about a year ago..
    I didn't go out with him because he was just being too serious about it, which freaked me out.

    I started talking to his best friend online. He asked me out, but i couldn't say yes because another guy ask me out too. So I told him i would think about it..

    When the guy saw me talking to his best friend he got mad and told me to (we don't allow swearing) off and called me a whore. Now, every time I see him in town, he just stares at me like he's madly in love with me but he won't talk to me because I was flirting with his best friend!! I just don't get him.


    Now to give you some advice.

    He asked you out, you said no, then you started talking to his best friend. He was jealous, but now I'm sure that he realizes that he wasted his time on you, and he's no longer interested.

    Just move on. You obviously have enough guys asking you out, so choose one of them instead.
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    Jun 11, 2010, 05:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    I'm going to fix your post for you. We don't allow chat speak on this site. Ever! Use the best English you're capable of, the best punctuation and sentence structure you're capable of, and use full words.

    This is a better way to write your post, so that everyone can understand.

    Ok, well this guy i know asked me out about a year ago..
    I didn't go out with him because he was just being too serious about it, which freaked me out.

    I started talking to his best friend online. He asked me out, but i couldn't say yes because another guy ask me out too. So I told him i would think about it..

    When the guy saw me talking to his best friend he got mad and told me to (we don't allow swearing) off and called me a whore. Now, every time I see him in town, he just stares at me like he's madly in love with me but he won't talk to me because I was flirting with his best friend!! I just don't get him.


    Now to give you some advice.

    He asked you out, you said no, then you started talking to his best friend. He was jealous, but now I'm sure that he realizes that he wasted his time on you, and he's no longer interested.

    Just move on. You obviously have enough guys asking you out, so choose one of them instead.
    Alty... WG is rubbing off on you.. LOL:D
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    Jun 12, 2010, 11:08 AM

    Maybe just chill for a bit. Don't get so invovled in boys. Just stay away from him and if he tries to talk smack just ignore it.
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    Jun 12, 2010, 11:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by RadioActive697 View Post
    Maybe just chill for a bit. Dont get so invovled in boys. Just stay away from him and if he trys to talk smack just ignore it.




    Clueless.. you really are! Grow up and stop acting like a little diva... :rolleyes:
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    #16

    Jun 12, 2010, 11:36 AM

    Why were you flirting with his friend if you liked him?
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    Jun 13, 2010, 02:55 AM

    I believe you've already asked the same or a very similar question on this board in 2 other threads. You only need to ask once you'll be responded to. It just takes time occasionally.
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    Jun 13, 2010, 08:23 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by positiveparent View Post
    I believe youve already asked the same or a very similar question on this board in 2 other threads. you only need to ask once youll be responded to. It just takes time occasionally.




    Clueless, do you understand this?:rolleyes:
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    Jun 13, 2010, 09:00 AM
    Judging from the way he has treated you, why would you have anything to do with him.

    Calling you a whore? Getting mad because you talked to his best friend? The two of you weren't even dating, still aren't dating, so what's the problem.

    You on the other hand, are trying to land a big fish by playing games. While you may have wanted to get his attention by flirting with his best friend, you did cause him to react, and he reacted in a very immature, angry way.

    You also used another person as a means to an end. Using his friend to get to him is a very selfish thing to do to his friend.

    Likely the two of them have an impression of you as being a name I can't use on this forum.

    Unless you are mature enough to establish a relationship on its own merits, instead of doing the immature game playing, nobody will know which end is up with you.

    Maybe leave them both alone.
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    Jun 13, 2010, 11:15 AM

    So, this guy asked you out for the specific purpose of having sex. You turned him down, wisely, because you're not ready for sex. You then talked to his best friend and agreed to think about dating him. Now that the first guy wants nothing to do with you, because you were flirting with his friend and refused to have sex with him, you want him.

    This guy clearly only wants to have sex with you, probably so he can brag about it. Why would you want to have anything to do with him? He's rude, immature, insulting, only wants to have sex with you, and treats you like crap when you turn him down. That doesn't sound like someone I would want in my life.

    It sounds like a simple case of wanting what you can't have. The ONLY reason you want him now, is because he doesn't want you. Stop playing childish games and either stop chasing guys, or find someone worth chasing.

    While you're at it, learn to spell correctly. There's NO way your teachers let you turn in papers and homework with the kind of spelling you've used on here. If you EVER want to be taken seriously in life, you better learn how to spell correctly, use proper punctuation, and stop typing in incomplete words and sentences.

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