[gobrella]

What should I do I need some help my boyfriends cousin likes me and I don't like him because I don't know him and its kind of weird because he keeps telling me he wants me and its kind of freaky :O so please help me

[redhed35]

Can I ask what age you are? I realise you posted in the teens section,but it would help if you could provide your age.

Thanks.

[gobrella]

O I'm sorry I'm 14

[redhed35]

o im sorry im 14

That's OK,can I ask what age your boyfriends cousin is?

[gobrella]

He is 15 and he doesn't know much english

[Homegirl 50]

If you don't like him and feel uncomfortable around him tell him to back off. If he doesn't talk to an adult about him... your parents.
Does your boy friend know his cousin is doing this?

[gobrella]

I would tell my boyfriend but I'm scared they might start fighting and my boyfriends gets jealous very easily and I tried to tell the dude to leave me alone but he couldn't understand me because he can't talk English mostly Spanish so I have a little problem and its sad a Mexican girl can't even speak Spanish so what am I suppose to do

[Kitkat22]

i would tell my boyfriend but im scared they might start fighting and my boyfriends gets jealous very easily and i tried to tell the dude to leave me alone but he couldn't understand me because he can't talk English mostly Spanish so i have a little problem and its sad a Mexican girl can't even speak Spanish so what am i suppose to do

If you have a friend who speaks spanish, let them write a letter for you . Tell them what to write and give it to the guy! Good luck

[redhed35]

i would tell my boyfriend but im scared they might start fighting and my boyfriends gets jealous very easily and i tried to tell the dude to leave me alone but he couldn't understand me because he can't talk English mostly Spanish so i have a little problem and its sad a Mexican girl can't even speak Spanish so what am i suppose to do

This can be sorted out without anyone getting hurt,everyone understands the word no,when it is spoken with authority,the sound of your voice,your body language will all tell this boy you are not interested.

I would advise you tell an adult if you are afraid of him,boyfriend aside,if you feel he is pushing it too far,you will need to tell an adult.

[Homegirl 50]

I would imagine he understands what NO means and he is ignoring it.
Tell your parents about this guy.

[gobrella]

Well thank you all and I am not afraid at all at school some people don't mess with me because they know if you really hurt my feelings and make me made of hurt any of my friends they know I won't back down because I am not scared to stand up for others and wait I'm getting off topic any ways thank you for all the helpful advice I will inform you on how it goes and what happened
Thanks for all your help,
Gobrella

[redhed35]

I would imagine he understands what NO means and he is ignoring it.
Tell your parents about this guy.

Good point.

[gobrella]

Yes it's a very good point

[Kitkat22]

yes its a very good point

Be careful ad I hope everything works out. As the others advised... tell your parents... It's a very wise thing to do.:)

[gobrella]

OK :) :D