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    djice Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 1, 2010, 11:21 PM
    I really need help, BAD. What should I do?
    Ok, I have been talking to this girl for a day (I know it's not long but I just need to figure something out). We said all of these cute and sweet things to each other and she said she is really starting to like me. But as the day goes on, she tells me to call her. So I call her and she gets all giggly. We get off the phone and I text her but it takes her about 10 minutes to reply to each one when she is sitting at her computer. Me and her both have an account on "Myyearbook" and we're friends so we can see when each other is online. But as I am waiting for her to text back, I send her a message saying, "Are you there?" and she REPLIES saying, "Yeah?" I asked her why she hasn't responded to my text and she says, "I was busy." But yet she can go online and probably chat with other people. Then as the day goes even further, I log onto my "Facebook" account, where we aren't friends on there but we can still see each others profiles. And as I am looking at all of the status's people write, I see Cassidy (the girl I'm talking to) write on one of her friend's wall saying, "I like my boyfriend ((:" I ask her what the deal is and she said "It won't last long. He'll break up with me. That's what they all do." I was really upset because she lied to me when I asked her if she was for sure single and she said yes. What should I do? Wait for her boyfriend to break up with her? Or move on and forget all about her? Thanks
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    Jun 1, 2010, 11:28 PM

    Move on and forget all about her. No matter whether its going to last or not she should have told you she wasn't single.

    No wonder her relationships don't last. She's too busy flirting with others!
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    Jun 1, 2010, 11:41 PM

    First of all SLOW DOWN , geez buddy you've only known this girl for a day and your already checking up on her , huge Red Flag.

    Why don't you ask her if she has a BF and she what she says , then at least you know where you stand. If she says yes you back off .

    But remember , if your going to take an interest in someone , take it easy and stop stressing about it on day 1 , and no more spying.
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    Jun 2, 2010, 07:49 AM

    A lot of drama for ONE day. Actually she is busy, talking online to many friends at once, and since you know now she has a boyfriend, that she obviously cares nothing about, take the hint, and back off.
    "It won't last long. He'll break up with me. That's what they all do."
    Now you know why, so why be the next one in line??

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