[CheckersLove]

Okay, so I've liked this guy(Tom) since 3rd grade, which was a while ago. He also like me back then. He recently found out that I still like him, and he's been avoiding me since. Is it because he hates me and thinks I'm a psychopath or does he like me back? PLEASE HELP!

[aimee_tt]

Id say he is avoiding you because he doesn't like you the way you like him. Maybe he does find it strange that you do still like him after so long. But I'm guessing he just doesn't want to give you the wrong idea

[teastalk]

I think that he doesn't like you the same way. He doesn't want you to get the impression that he likes you back... since he probably doesn't unfortunately.

[RadioActive697]

Yeah like they said its pretty much cause he doesn't like you the way you like him.

[CheckersLove]

I guess its true. Is it possible to get him to like me back?

[teastalk]

No. There is no way to force someone to like you back. The only thing you can do is to live your own life, do your own thing, and then if he decides that he likes you he'll take initiative and then you'll know it.

[CheckersLove]

Okay. Thanks!
Also- my friend likes him too. It kind of sucks. She reeeeeealy freaked when I told her.

[ClueLess033]

He avoiding you because he don't like you
Move on he's not worth it

[CheckersLove]

I can't move on! I freaking love him! I think about him all day, everyday! HE'S THE ONE. THE ONLY ONE. I CANNOT MOVE ON.

[aimee_tt]

You can move on. You just need to stop thinking about him.

If you start to think about him call a friend or watch a movie or Put your iPod on loud and sing along in your room and dance like a crazy person... Not only will it stop you from thinking of him, but it will be fun and a bit of exercise.

If you see him at school be polite but don't talk to him. Keep your distance to help yourself. If he asks then them him that your trying to get over him.

If your in class and start thinking about him, get your nose back into your book and stop day dreaming!

[positiveparent]

Maybe he's shy around girls, or he just might not be into all that dating stuff yet.

Why not go over to him when you next see him and say hello, long time no speak to or something just casual, and go from there.

Don't chase him though that's a mugs game if he's not interested then you are better off leaving it, you can't make anyone want to date you or be your friend unless they want to.