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cursedyou94 · May 20, 2010, 05:10 PM

I really need to know what's going on, I'm 16 and my girlfriend is turning 17 in July. But the first incident that happened that I didn't agree with was her ex boyfriend and his fried also mine came over to her house while I was out of town and her parents weren't home. So I asked her why did she do it and she said (well babe I thought you trusted me? This can't work out if you can't trust me, there my friends I'm allowed to hangout with them!) so what's in mind?! And the second incident was on the bus, I got off early and I didn't ride the bus, and my friend peter was crying because of his girlfriend treating him wrong, and she told peter that she was going to cry because he was crying!> what in the world do I do? Am I over reacting on this or what? Please help!! :((

friend4u178 · May 20, 2010, 05:24 PM

Sounds to me like your over reacting unless there's more to the story than your saying here .

If your going to trust her then do so , making unfounded allegations of possible cheating will only push her away.

BlackVY · May 20, 2010, 05:41 PM

I don't see anything too wrong with your girlfriend's actions...

She had a friend over while you were away... maybe not the best thing that her parents weren't there, it was her ex boyfriend and you were out of town, but he is her friend, so how much do you trust her? She is right, it won't work if you don't trust her.

Furthermore, its quite normal for a girl to try if they see another person hurt or crying, so don't get weird-ed out by that. Its like if we see a friend of ours getting hurt or angry, we get angry. Its normal.

You need to ask yourself why you are looking for issues here and why you are looking for things to be wrong. Do you not trust your girlfriend? Do you want there to be a problem, and therefore a reason for you to leave her?

talaniman · May 21, 2010, 03:41 PM

Yes you are over reacting. All you had to do was ask your friend what happened, and since all of you are friends, what's the big deal.

As for the crying couple, that's their issue.

Jake2008 · May 21, 2010, 04:53 PM

Indeed you are over reacting- big time.

She's doing nothing wrong.

The surest way to see a relationship crash and burn is to be accusational, confrontational, and judgmental about the actions of your girlfriend- especially when she has to defend herself against nothing!