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Caligula · May 21, 2010, 12:35 PM

So I was texting to my girlfriend and we were having a normal conversation when suddenly I got a text from her saying " LOL marry me, I love you!", and I asked what was that for?
She answered it was a mistake, it was for a MALE friend of her, and she was just fooling around because they do it all the time.

I was mind blown at that moment because I had never known she said such stuff to her male friends, so I said, "??? I never thought you would do that baby, what if you would catch me saying I love you to female friends of mine, what would you do?"
And she answered saying " f you, I'm really pissed right now".

I mean, WHAT THE HELL? I catch her saying I love you to her male friends and she's the one who gets pissed at me?

What should I do? This has just happened some moments ago, I'm still very mind blown, sorry for the bad grammar, not feeling too good right now...

I love her... we have been together for 8 months now and I don't want to break up but how should I react to this?

The Dark09 · May 21, 2010, 12:57 PM

If its all a joke don't do the wrong thing. And in the future try not to almost use bad words.

Caligula · May 21, 2010, 01:09 PM

Im very sorry, I was just really pissed at the moment. But could you specify? I mean is it really worth dating a girl who insulted me like that because of nothing? We have been happy together for 8 months and she has never been rude to me or said something like that, ever.

Homegirl 50 · May 21, 2010, 01:21 PM

I don't know why she is mad at you unless she got caught in a two-timing game.
I'd leave her alone. Don't talk to her unless she wants to explain to you what this was all about.
How old are the two of you?

Caligula · May 21, 2010, 01:28 PM

So you say I shouldn't speak to her until she apologizes?

I'm 17, she's 16, we are very close in many ways. It feels stupid to break up over such thing, but I also don't feel like I'd continue to be happy with a girl who once insulted me like that... I'm so confused right now.

ScottGem · May 21, 2010, 01:47 PM

The only advice I have for you is to watch your language. Our profanity filter obviously blocked several instances of profanity in your post. There is also masked profanity. This site has specific rules, please make sure you familiarize yourself with them.

Caligula · May 21, 2010, 01:58 PM

Okay, I just edited most of the profanity... sorry for that.

Homegirl 50 · May 21, 2010, 09:34 PM

Your ages explains a lot of this.
Maybe she had a bad day I don't know, but I would not appreciate someone telling me to blank off just because I asked a question.
If it bothers you, leave her alone. That is really rude and unnecessary behavior.

J_9 · May 21, 2010, 09:49 PM

Maybe she got tired of feeling like she was being pressured into having sex.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ve-471268.html

Homegirl 50 · May 21, 2010, 10:08 PM

Originally Posted by J_9

Maybe she got tired of feeling like she was being pressured into having sex.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ve-471268.html

Yep, that could do it!
She may be turned off by you

Caligula · May 22, 2010, 01:47 AM

Originally Posted by J_9

Maybe she got tired of feeling like she was being pressured into having sex.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ve-471268.html

{vulgarity and personal attacks removed - <>} in 8 months of relationship we spoke about sex TWICE. I didn't want to pressure her so that's the reason why I came to these forums in the first place.

{More personal attacks removed - <>}

J_9 · May 22, 2010, 02:43 AM

Originally Posted by Caligula

Also I have told her that if she doesn't want sex in the "penetration" way, we can also try out a softer approach if you know what I mean, and she still refuses that.

Originally Posted by Caligula

But what about "foreplay"? we could give pleasure to each other and I wouldn't feel as sexually frustrated, therefore making me happier

The above quotes make us adults think that you may be pressuring her a little too much to pleasure you.

Obviously we don't know what is going on inher mind, but from your other two threads, it seems as though (and you admitted) your sex drive is higher than hers. Due to this, you may have pushed her into the arms of someone who is not as interested in sex as you are.

You know why I am annoying to you? Because I sound like your mother if you were to have this conversation with her. Because I am most likely older than your mother and have children of my own. Because I have been through these experiences with my sons and am now going through something similar with my daughter.

I have 29 more years of experience on this planet.

Eelarch · May 22, 2010, 04:35 AM

I would honestly relax, it was a joke and you got a little bit over protective . I regularly talk about our future wedding plans with the girls in my drama class ( its all girls ;) )

Also a lot of the time on Facebook , msn etc , as a joke people say things like " LuFF y00 BbZZ" because its making fun of the grammatically deprived "neds" that talk like that .