[J_9]

Well, sorry you didn't get the answers you wanted, but you got the truth. Sometimes the truth hurts.

Oh, and if her parents like you so well, ask THEM if their daughter can give you a blow job an see what reaction you get.

[Caligula]

Edit: I didn't mean to say that...

J_9, I'm obviously not going to ask that to her parents, sure I'm a teenager but that doesn't mean I'm dumb. I appreciate your previous advice though.

This thread really changed my mind, as I said, from now on, I'm going to focus on what me and my girlfriend BOTH want. I confess that I kind of raged about this sex thing without thinking. I see things way more clearly now.

[Cat1864]

Edit: I didn't mean to say that...

J_9, I'm obviously not going to ask that to her parents, sure I'm a teenager but that doesn't mean I'm dumb. I appreciate your previous advice though.

This thread really changed my mind, as I said, from now on, I'm going to focus on what me and my girlfriend BOTH want. I confess that I kinda raged about this sex thing without thinking. I see things way more clearly now.

I am glad you seem to have calmed down.

You're learning and maturing. It isn't easy to do especially with all the things going on around you.

I think you do have a pretty good head on your shoulders. Give it a chance to do its job and keep you from making major mistakes. I think that is why you came here and stayed.

I wish you well.

[cdad]

Edit: I didn't mean to say that...

J_9, I'm obviously not going to ask that to her parents, sure I'm a teenager but that doesn't mean I'm dumb. I appreciate your previous advice though.

This thread really changed my mind, as I said, from now on, I'm going to focus on what me and my girlfriend BOTH want. I confess that I kinda raged about this sex thing without thinking. I see things way more clearly now.

Have you ever thought about the fact that there are girls out there that have thought about it as much as you do and made the decision to wait until they get married so it can be truly special. Its much more common then you think. If you want to grow into a man then you have to stop thinking as a teenager. You keep using it like an excuse. Its true that many teens think its cool to have sex and then when they are standing in front of a judge for issues of child support or even getting to see their child its not so fun anymore. What you have to realize is that sometimes it takes being pounded with the truth is the only way we get sense knocked into us. Respect her wishs and try to distract yourself in other ways. Be as good as you can be.

[J_9]

redhead1992 disagrees: they end up pregnant because they WANT to find away to stop desiring sex?

Since you are new, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you did NOT read the rules as to how to give agrees or disagrees. Disagrees are for information that is factually incorrect.

Had you read the entire post before you gave me a reddie you would have noticed that this child believes that contraception is 100% infallible. That is WHY I posted what I did. Teens think that contraception is 100% effective so they do end up pregnant.

[Homegirl 50]

There is no way you are going to or can reduce your sex drive at your age, it is normal. You can masturbate which is what a lot of guys your age do. You can find other things to do with your time, you can not allow you two to be in positions where heavy petting is easy, you can group date. You can go on dates in very public places.
Wanting something and it not being the right time to have it and then learning to deal with it is part of the growing and maturing process.
Thanks for asking the question, it shows you are thinking with your upper brain and that is a plus.