
Originally Posted by
summertyme
..."Maybe he is waiting for you to say something"...
Hello. I found out something interesting which states my earlier point.
I tried to make polite and general conversation with 'Mike'.
He didn't seem very talkative.
He told a mutual friend 'Kat' that he remembers the conversation with me but was busy and didn't pay much attention.
This is from a guy who is always staring at me and smiling when I say hello, smile etc?
Kat gave him my details to contact me (yesterday so nothing yet)and she reffered to him saying something about "when we get to know each other". He said I was 'cute' and that the important thing to him is personality.
He does not seem shy at all, perhaps just not interested but wanting attention?
But the nice thing about this is, he remembered your conversation. How old is this guy anyway? Certain age groups of guys tend to be weird about things like this and I find it a huge turnoff. Anyway. It could be any of these reasons:
- really busy and hence hasn't contacted you/didnt talk much to you (this is absolutely true, it's the rare guy that can multitask)
- shy. I once had this really outgoing guy who would do things ard me but never speak much when spoken to. The tongue-tied thing happens to guys too.
- still wants to get to know you first. Probably thinks you are cute, but he might need more reasons to make a move on u, and no this has nothing to do with your qualities, but more like he hasn't known you enough to see your qualities yet. :)
- don't base everything off a one-time conversation. It was just once and he could have a zillion things on his mind. Try to talk to him again, but make it casual and don't expect too much out of it. The more casual you make it out to be, the more relaxed you will be, the less upset if he doesn't respond the way you want him to. Never anticipate his reactions, just go along with the conversation and enjoy it. If he doesn't like u, life won't end, but you would have at least made another new friend (: