[Jlesnik33]

My friend asked me help on her relationship.
She is now 25 years old, and been seeing her boyfriend since she was 19. Her and her boyfriend have never fought, or disagreed. But lately she has felt that he isn't the one for her.

Going back a little bit, he wasn't showing her the affection she wanted. Saying I love you, kisses, sex, the whole nine yards. When she sat down with him and told him how she felt he cried for about an hour and told her how sorry and how he can't see him with out her. After that he has been very loving, but her feelings have not grew strong. Now she wants to sit down and talk with him about seeing other people. Meanwhile he just asked her parents to help him pick out a ring which made this harder for her. What my question is for you, what can she say to him... how can she word it the right way? How does she handle this situation?

[loopylou24]

Ooo now that's a tricky 1, no matter what she does this guy is guna end up hurt.the longer she leaves it the worse its going to be. Best advice I can give is for her just to be honest with her boyfriend and go from there.

[talaniman]

Its going to hurt no matter what she says, but honesty is the best policy.

[Jlesnik33]

She wants to be honest, but she doesn't know how to put it now that he is being loving, and changed after she talked to him, because that didn't change how she felt, even though she thought it would