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gorgeous1234 · May 1, 2010, 05:06 PM

I missed my period ,I think I'm just stressed out because on aprill someone that I use to love he just doesn't want to talk with me, we love each other so I was crying for the whole month... I never had sex ,I'm virigin and I had my starting period on march 5th and now is may 1 .:'( .What happen I never had fingers with someone ,or whatever how you called it ,its weird how come.. Im about to kill myself I don't want to be in the news paper it werid believe me A girl she never had sex or fingers its pregnant ,I don't have no clue :'( ,can anyone help me my mom knows and she's just is scarred, my body all shaked :( :confused: :'( Ima make an appoiment to do the blood test what about if it is positive ima kill myself.If I do aborting chances are I'm not going to be virigin anymore or whut?Can anyone help me.?

XOXOlove · May 1, 2010, 05:30 PM

If you never had sex than you can't be pregnant. If you missed a period it does not always mean that you are pregnant either. If you continue to miss periods, you can go to a doctor to see what is wrong.

J_9 · May 1, 2010, 05:40 PM

How old are you? Do you understand how pregnancy actually occurs?

Cat1864 · May 1, 2010, 05:43 PM

How old are you? How long have you been getting your period? Are you on any type of birth control (not necessarily to prevent pregnancy)? Have you played around with your ex without clothes on with his penis near your vagina (be honest)?

There are a lot reasons you could be missing your period besides pregnancy. Stress, starving yourself, exercising to the point of not having enough body fat, hormone imbalance, false/hysterical pregnancy (your body thinks it pregnant but isn't), you haven't been getting your period long enough for it to have become 'regular', etc. are just a few reasons.

You definitely need to see a doctor and be honest with the doctor about just how far you and your ex went in 'playing around'.

Don't make any plans of any type until you find out what is going on. Panicking will only make matters worse.

Fr_Chuck · May 1, 2010, 05:49 PM

First if you did not have sex, and a male did not get his sperm in or very near you then you can not be pregnant.

Next things like a young person being pregnant does not make the news paper.

gorgeous1234 · May 1, 2010, 07:14 PM

Ok I had my periods on march 5th and now is may 1st .Im 17 years old.Yes I'm beinq honest I never had sex and also the guy I love is in another country we just talk on the phone its it.My parents are strict I could never do somethinq like that.But I was in a diet for 2 weeks after we stop talkinq ,I just ate 1 apple and salate its it.Do you think this diet might be the reason why I missed my periods. And Fr Chuck It will be weird because I never had sex or fingers and this thing never happened with me.
Or this can be when I took a shower and I put water in the tub with hot water and probably was a sperm on ittt or it wasn't cleaned enough .Im so scarredddd trust me people I'm so stressed out and nervous today my heart beat too fast .I don't know why.What about if I have a baby should I take the baby out abort it and ima still virigin or?! ]=

justcurious55 · May 1, 2010, 07:30 PM

OK. You need to calm down. I don't see why you think you might be pregnant. I'm guessing by "fingers" you mean being fingered. The only way you could become pregnant through that would be if he had sperm on his fingers. And even then, the chances of you becoming pregnant through that are slim to none. If you haven't had sex, then yes, you are a virgin. And yes, not eating and being stressed can throw off your cycle.

There's no reason for you to even be thinking about having a baby or an abortion at this point. There's no reason to believe you are pregnant. So you missed a period. Unless you're sexually active, missing one period isn't something to freak out about this much. If you're worried about it, you need to go to the dr.

gorgeous1234 · May 1, 2010, 07:56 PM

I just asked my mom and I think I'm pregnant just because of I fill up the bathtub with water when I took a shower,and I think there was a sperme into the water because I was into it.I bet you guys understand me a little when I speak, my english is kind of hard.Oh God Help me otherwise Ima kill myself.I swear :'(

justcurious55 · May 1, 2010, 08:16 PM

YOU CANNOT GET PREGNANT THAT WAY. I can't make it any clearer. Your mom is wrong if she thinks you can. For you to get pregnant, sperm has to go into your vagina, and make it all the way back. And even then, there's no guarantee you'll get pregnant. YOU COULD NOT HAVE GOTTEN PREGNANT FROM TAKING A BATH. The only way you could have gotten pregnant in a bathtub, is if you had sex in one. Call your dr. maybe he or she can better explain how pregnancy happens. The more you post, the more I think you're not pregnant. Now knock it off with the drama about killing yourself.

gorgeous1234 · May 1, 2010, 09:01 PM

Ok Thankx .I'll se what's going to happen.but thankx everyone <3

justcurious55 · May 1, 2010, 09:23 PM

Call your dr. let us know what he or she says.

kp2171 · May 1, 2010, 09:34 PM

Originally Posted by gorgeous1234

I just asked my mom and I think I'm pregnant just b/c of I fill up the bathtub with water when i took a shower,and I think there was a sperme into the water b/c i was into it.I bet you guys understand me a little when i speak, my english is kinda hard.Oh God Help me otherwise Ima kill my self.I swear :'(

Do you understand that missed periods are common?

That MANY things can tie into a missed period... many of which have NOTHING to do with sex?

Mental stress can cause a missed period.

Poor nutrition can.

Illness can.

And on and on and on.

Honestly... I think the woman who has "regular and predictable" cycle... month after month, year after year is the woman who is "irregular"...

Many women have concerns about "irregulatirties" in their cycle... when I would say the only real constant IS occasional irregularity.

So... I guess I'm saying that if you haven't had sex and you are irregular... there's a VERY good chance that it has nothing to do with being pregnant.

kp2171 · May 1, 2010, 09:35 PM

And when in doubt...

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J_9 · May 2, 2010, 07:52 PM

Goprgeous1234...

There is no possible way you are pregnant. Sperm cannot live in a bathtub, so you can't get pregnant that way. The only way for you to get pregnant would be through intercourse.

Periods can be off for many reasons. Diet is one, another is worry. Since you are so worried about being pregnant, it's possible you aren't having your period because you are scared.

Don't be scared, you aren't pregnant.