[sniperblade9]

I keep having my heart broken by every girl I date and it hurts more and more and I just can't take it. I don't have many friends to help, but I just want a serious relationship. Even though I keep getting hurt I go back to some of them. I'm just a easy and emotional guy. I want a girlfriend, but I don't want to be hurt, but I can't say no to anyone who asks or anyone that I want. I don't know what to. I'm eager to find the person I want, but I can't wait. People have told me to stop dating till I'm a senior in High School, but I don't want to stop even though I always get hurt. Its kind of hard to explain, but I hope you understand. I just don't know what to do...
Thank you everyone :]

[Klumster]

I didn't date anyone is high school because I didn't see the point to it. I just saw too much drama in high school relationships and they all ended quickly with either the girl or guy in another relationship 2 weeks later. I'm going to say this for both males and females, but they really don't know what they want in high school, but there are a few that do. I want to let you know I'm not telling you to stop dating just talk to girls, don't rush into trying to be in a relationship and wait for a girl you know is really interested in you. Idk your dating past, but a lot of people in middle/high school only date so they can have that status of being in a relationship. I noticed this at a young age and I'm glad I didn't have a single girlfriend in high school. I dated a few girls but only to see if they were right for me, but turned out they weren't. You and the other people at your school still have a lot of growing up to do but just don't rush into it. I know where your coming from because I wanted to be in a relationship so bad, but I knew I couldn't just date a girl so I could be in a relationship because it would end in weeks. Take your time, don't rush yourself with the ladies and the right one well come along.

[I wish]

What's the rush? You're still young.

If you hope to have a serious relationship with every girl that you like, you're just setting yourself up for disappointment. Slow down. Enjoy the time you spend with a girl. A serious relationship will develop naturally, it's not forced.

[alesha8781]

I agree. If you start dating someone, and they sense that you are desperate for them to be that serious about it right from the get go, it's going to scare them. The secret is to slow down, enjoy yourself, have fun. Girls will see a happy, confident guy and flock to you.