Guilt, shame, and embarrassement after intimacy

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Apr 19, 2010, 04:44 AM

Originally Posted by Caroljj90

ugh well we tried just being friends but stuff fell through i told him my true thoughts on something he didn't like what i had to say he blew up now we're not talking and probably wont for a long time.

That may be for the best.

If you have been holding back your personal thoughts and feelings on different things (even those unrelated to sex) because of concerns over his reactions, it may have made the other issues worse.

Take some time to find out what you need and want to help you heal at your own pace. When you are ready, find someone who will be understanding and will work with you.

Good luck. :)

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