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    Apr 13, 2010, 01:54 PM
    About ten years apart.
    I'm going to sound a little/a lot insane here. I've met a brilliant, wonderful man, who is twenty-five. Yes, he is older than me, obviously. I am infact a responsible young woman, and we haven't done anything terribly bad.. In terms of sex, or anything of the sort. I won't say I love him, although I do, because Love is such a strong word, powerful ability.. and emotion, but we do care for eachother deeply. I want to give what we could have a shot, although I would hate to make him wait. So... I do have a few options. One is to just break it off, because I fear of him going to jail. Another option is to wait and keep it under the radar.

    If anyone is to read this, please help me!!!
    I'm scared of all outcomes, but I need at least a couple suggestions.
    Everyone has a beginning, but they need a middle and an end.
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    Apr 13, 2010, 01:57 PM

    25 year old man should have no interest in a 15 year old. If he is the one, then he won't mind waiting another 5 years.
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    Apr 13, 2010, 02:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Emland View Post
    25 year old man should have no interest in a 15 year old. If he is the one, then he won't mind waiting another 5 years.
    No, normally a 25 year old man wouldn't have an interest, but we did meet online, and fell for eachothers personality's before finding out our ages. I know it's dangerous to become comfortable with someone when you've never really met them, but we did meet.
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    Apr 13, 2010, 02:48 PM

    Be careful. I am dealing with a similar situation. Both of us are adults, so that's not the problem. But we met online like y'all did. We became very close and connected super big. Then when we met, he did a complete 180 on me. I know you say y'all have met, but just be careful. You never can be too sure if a guy can be trusted. You don't want to get hurt. And you don't need to have sex with him. That's for sure.
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    Apr 13, 2010, 02:55 PM
    He's 25 and you're 15. Sorry, but no matter how 'responsible' you are you haven't yet experienced life.

    I have a 15 year old step daughter who is responsible and mature, but I would be horrified if she was considering a relationship with a 25 year old man.

    If you've only conversed with this man online then you essentially know nothing about him. Guys do this ALL the time - they spend time gaining the confidence of young women and then they take advanatage of them.

    Someone who is 25 should not be interested in girls that are 15. Try and be mature and ask yourself WHY he would be interested when he has women his own age to choose from. Could it be that there is something wrong with him? You may find that the answer may not be what you want.

    You're young and you're inexperienced, it's time to tell your mother or your father about this. Don't be a fool - stick to boys your own age.
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    Apr 13, 2010, 03:38 PM

    If you are 15 and he is 25 you can assume he is a child moslestor since no man will want a real relationship with a child.
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