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    #141

    Apr 10, 2010, 08:55 AM

    Several years back, I saw a woman at the swimming pool that had back boobs. She was so overweight that her backfat needed it's own bra. It was disturbing.
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    #142

    Apr 10, 2010, 09:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by hheath541 View Post
    several years back, i saw a woman at the swimming pool that had back boobs. she was so overweight that her backfat needed it's own bra. it was disturbing.
    That has to be the funniest thing I have ever heard in a long time. Laughing out loud people here are wondering what's wrong with me...
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    #143

    Apr 10, 2010, 09:04 AM

    I don't have a problem with overweight people but seriously... dress appropriately for your weight!

    I have a friend, I love her to death but she really needs to rethink how she dresses.
    Thunder thighs do not look good in a mini skirt.
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    #144

    Apr 10, 2010, 09:06 AM

    Hello again,



    I LOVE this chick.

    excon
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    #145

    Apr 10, 2010, 09:10 AM

    See now if she wore a long baggy t-shirt over that it would be OK...

    Somehow I don't think that's her plan though :rolleyes:
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    #146

    Apr 10, 2010, 09:24 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again,



    I LOVE this chick.

    excon
    Suck it in, you can do it. Cheering on this girl okay well I got a video to share with you guys. This is somebody comfortable in her own skin. Let me search for it.

    Lol
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    #147

    Apr 10, 2010, 10:09 AM

    Hi all! Alty, I'm so glad you opened this thread! Yay! How is everyone doing?
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    #148

    Apr 10, 2010, 10:21 AM

    Tired and tired and need to get some rest. Hello Enigma...
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    #149

    Apr 10, 2010, 10:52 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again,



    I LOVE this chick.

    excon
    This is exactly how I feel when I'm on my period.


    Haha
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    #150

    Apr 10, 2010, 06:12 PM

    When I was in chicago a few years back, one of the first sites that greeted me was an EXTREMELY overweight woman in spandex pants. Her 'spare tire' had gotten so big it hung down and made an actual skirt-like flap below her waist that bounced when she walked.

    Spandex is NOT for everyone.
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    #151

    Apr 10, 2010, 06:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hheath541 View Post
    when i was in chicago a few years back, one of the first sites that greeted me was an EXTREMELY overweight woman in spandex pants. her 'spare tire' had gotten so big it hung down and made an actual skirt-like flap below her waist that bounced when she walked.

    spandex is NOT for everyone.
    Actually not for many... :)
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    #152

    Apr 10, 2010, 06:48 PM

    Spandex is a privilege, not a right. There should be regulations keeping companies from making spandex past a certain size. Just because it looks good in a size 2, doesn't mean it'll look good in a size 22.
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    #153

    Apr 10, 2010, 07:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hheath541 View Post
    spandex is a privilege, not a right. there should be regulations keeping companies from making spandex past a certain size. just because it looks good in a size 2, doesn't mean it'll look good in a size 22.
    I say if someone wants to humiliate themselves in that way, then let them. It gives the rest of us something to chuckel at. I mean seriously, they HAVE to know better. But I have a feeling they wear them because they're too lazy to find pants that fit, it's too hard to find pants that fit, OR they just don't care anymore.
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    #154

    Apr 10, 2010, 07:17 PM

    Ever hear of the term delusions of grandeur?
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    #155

    Apr 10, 2010, 07:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Stringer View Post
    Ever hear of the term delusions of grandeur?
    I get those. :)
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    #156

    Apr 10, 2010, 08:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Stringer View Post
    Ever hear of the term delusions of grandeur?
    Yes, but the cases I'm referring to are delusions of MINUTIA! They're grand-er then they think they are.
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    #157

    Apr 10, 2010, 08:17 PM

    Well I should not say this but I need to send out all my love to all these big girls.

    Ever hear of the saying more cushion for the pushing?

    Or that at least they are comfortable in their own skin. They should not be embarrassed.

    Some cultures and past history suggests that society actually looked on beauty in a different way then we do today. That being skinny was frowned upon and being over weight actually had better merit.

    Many :Many women who are way way over weight have really pretty faces. Some hide behind the weight as a way of coping about something but you know what.

    Inside they are like you and me. Although I have to say I am glad I do not have man titties as big as those guys or some girls would expect me to be able to produce milk... hmmm

    Anyway, would have a hard time finding a bra... Happy I do not have to worry about that but I know some men that might be better suited to wear a bra. Some really do need it...
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    #158

    Apr 10, 2010, 08:30 PM

    I have no problem with someone being overweight. I have a problem with ANYONE squeezing into clothing that obviously doesn't fit. That includes a size 5 wearing size 2 pants.

    It's just not attractive. There's being comfortable in your own skin. Then there's knowing how to pick the best clothing for your body type. Too small is NEVER the best choice.

    Someone with broad shoulders and a relatively small head should wear v-necks, and NEVER wear turtle necks. Someone with long legs should wear a-line skirts, not pencil skirts.

    Clothes that fit always look better than ones that don't.
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    #159

    Apr 10, 2010, 08:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jesushelper76 View Post
    Well I should not say this but I need to send out all my love to all these big girls.

    Ever hear of the saying more cushion for the pushing?

    Or that at least they are comfortable in their own skin. They should not be embarrased.

    Some cultures and past history suggests that society actually looked on beauty in a different way then we do today. That being skinny was frowned upon and being over weight actually had better merit.

    Many :Many women who are way way over weight have really pretty faces. Some hide behind the weight as a way of coping about something but you know what.

    Inside they are like you and me. Although I have to say I am glad I do not have man titties as big as those guys or some girls would expect me to be able to produce milk... hmmm

    anyway, would have a hard time finding a bra... Happy I do not have to worry about that but I know some men that might be better suited to wear a bra. Some really do need it...

    You know, I don't have anything against overweight people in general (I'm talking VERY obese), but I do have issues with some of their behaviors when they know they are unhealthy. The main issue I have a problem with is when I work and they order these large drinks with extra chocolate and heavy cream. Or when I worked at DQ and There would be overweight couples coming in with their children that are getting round around the center and they order the kid a large blizzard, or a large sundae with extra fudge. I want to tell them, "If it weren't for my job I'd make you get a small, because you have every right to be healthy and your'e not helping yourself, a treat once and a while is fine, but you should love yourself more.". This is because I KNOW how bad it is for them, and I know they know too, and I wonder why they don't care. Especially when they have kids and they set the example for their children. People know how bad it is to be too overweight. I mean like Morbidly obese. Mostly it just makes me sad because you can see what beautiful people they are and I wonder why they won't take better care of themselves.

    Although I will blame some of that on America's health care. If they can't afford to go to the doctor, they might not actually know how bad of shape they're in. Most of them have many treatable diseases that they know nothing about. And then they have a heart-attack at age 32.

    It's just sad.
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    #160

    Apr 10, 2010, 08:44 PM

    I made everyone go series. It is sad, and never said anybody here was against or had anything against Bigger people. There is the other side of the coin. Where people are way too thin, Not as many people talk about that though.

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