I need help with this

diaryofsilence · Apr 4, 2010, 09:45 PM

Ever since last year,I liked this girl... she knows I like her,but fails to recognize how much I like her... ive told her how much,but she doesn't understand !she's been dating the same guy for about a year and a half now and its started to take its toll . Its to the point where I hurt cause I love her so much. Why is my life a living hell

ohsohappy · Apr 4, 2010, 09:50 PM

How old are you?

I'm pretty sure you're freaking her out. I know I would be. I have a feeling you've been coming on too strong and completely turned her off to you.

diaryofsilence · Apr 4, 2010, 09:55 PM

No the thing is I've kept my distance the entire time

diaryofsilence · Apr 4, 2010, 09:57 PM

By the way I'm 16

ohsohappy · Apr 4, 2010, 09:57 PM

Okay well that explains everything.

ohsohappy · Apr 4, 2010, 10:00 PM

You still told her, which means she knows. You say she fails ro recognize it, but did you ever stop to think that she doesn't want to because she already has a boyfriend?

You need to find someone available. Sorry to be blunt but I don't feel bad for you. Your life is a living Hell because you choose to pine after a girl you know full well isn't available.

My advice is get over it.

You're not in love with her, you seem to be obsessed with her.

I mean, you say you told her how much you like her but you keep her distance? That's just kind of creepy if you ask me. I assume she's your age. And that means a LOT.

diaryofsilence · Apr 5, 2010, 01:19 PM

Why will no none give me valuable info?your telling me things I already know

Duh she has a boyfriend and the reason I keep my distance is because her boyfriend is... interesting.violent is the more appropriate word.im not obsessed... im in love.I know I'm in love... and I have tried my best to get over her but nothing works .every moment , she crosses my mind and I feel depressed again .just because I love her,would gladly die for her ,and she doesn't consider that at all... the reason I told her is because she questioned me on it.so I answered her.it brings tears to my eyes knowing that I will never be with her...

ohsohappy · Apr 5, 2010, 01:31 PM

You're 16. Trust me, one day she won't cross your mind. I've been there.

talaniman · Apr 6, 2010, 08:47 AM

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...-301083-2.html

You have been given good advice in your other thread as well as this one but your threads are closed for alias abuse. By the way you were 14 in your other threads, so stop trolling for answers that you will never agree with, as you should have let this go a long time ago, because she wants no part of you. Accept it!