[indernath]

I really thank every one for taking the trouble to help me out. I want to specially thank CravenMorhead and QLP for their new perspective.

[JudyKayTee]

Well I have to be honest, me personally I could never be attracted to someone who had an ironing board butt. For me, physical attraction is what pushes you forward to marry someone - not just the emotional attraction. So I like women who have a reasonable nice butt. Looks like you shot yourself in the foot here if you are now regretting your decision.

Things you can try:

Tell her to put on a little weight and tone up at the gym. Hopefully some of the extra weight goes to her butt, and her gym work will make sure it is nice to look at and caress as you say.

Otherwise like Gemini says: get creative.

TELL HER TO PUT ON SOME WEIGHT? TELL HER TO TONE UP?

Surprise - women can vote now and think for themselves... and everything.

[jmjoseph]

And are we to understand that YOU are perfect in every way? That your wife has nothing about YOU that she would change?

You can look at other women. She can look at other men.

But you should be grateful for what you have.

If this is the only thing in your life that is causing you frustration, then consider yourself lucky.

And as Alty mentioned, when you want to get your hands on a "big ol fat a$$", scratch your head.