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    Mar 25, 2010, 01:16 AM
    Why do I feel no pleasure from sex?
    Hi,
    I have recently lost my virginity last week, and it really hurt. Me and my boyfriend have had sex since and it doesn't hurt anymore but I don't feel anything or any pleasure. I have masturbated before and he has gone down on me which felt good, but sex gives me no pleasure. I am really worried about this because I want to be able to enjoy sex and I fear I won't, and then it might affect my relationships in the future. I don't wish to speak to a doctor or my parents about this as I am a bit young. So someone please help?
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    Mar 25, 2010, 01:39 AM
    How old are you and how old is he please?
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    Mar 25, 2010, 01:42 AM

    Well... you going to have to do more then just have sex!!
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    Mar 25, 2010, 08:15 AM

    No one ever told you? Sex is usually horrible when you first start having it (at least for women). Just keep trying, it gets better.
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    Mar 25, 2010, 09:28 AM

    Closed, because the OP has not given her age, and we do NOT answer questions for non-adults in the adult sexuality forums.
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