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    xbabycakesxx Posts: 35, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 23, 2010, 09:32 AM
    I'm too shy to talk to him
    I've seen this guy a few times now and he has noticed me because he looksover at me and smiles. I smile back, and I want to get to know him and stuff but I'm too shy to go over and say hi. I need sum tips on what I could do
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    Mar 23, 2010, 09:36 AM

    Just be natural. Go over and ask his name. Are you at school? If so start by talking about the work your doing. Just relax, smile and be natural
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    Mar 23, 2010, 09:51 AM

    He works at a supermarket wher I go shopping and I've seen him loads of times and he keeps looking at me and smiling. Does that mean he remembers me or not?
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    Mar 23, 2010, 10:02 AM

    Mmmm it could do or it could mean he's just doing his job. Why don't u make an excuse to talk to him next time your in the store? Ask him where something is or if they sell something you need. Then judge from his reaction
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    Mar 23, 2010, 10:04 AM

    But if he was just doing his job why would he look over when he sees me
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    Mar 23, 2010, 10:10 AM

    Well like I said it may be that he has noticed you and likes you BUT I work in a big department store hunny and we are told to make eye contact and smile with as many people as possible that come into the store. Anyway, if he does like you all the more reason to talk to him :)
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    Mar 23, 2010, 10:13 AM

    Right OK. But I dot want to go up to him and start talking if he's just loking at me because he's working. And obviously he can't come over if he's working
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    Mar 23, 2010, 10:27 AM

    Haha I know what yoursaying but this is just one of those things where you have to take a chance or you will always think 'what if?'
    I think you should put on your bast smile take a deep breath and walk over and ask him something, after all that's what he's there for and you will know by his reaction what he thinks of you. Go for it! X
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    Mar 23, 2010, 10:31 AM

    I suppose your right. But I know the min I try to say something I'll go all shy
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    Mar 23, 2010, 10:35 AM

    He might like that! Haha just give it a go. You might surprise yourself and let us know how it goes x
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    Mar 23, 2010, 10:39 AM

    Right okay then. Well won't see until Friday but that gives me time to try get bit more confident I guess
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