[overthinker]

Last year during Christmas eve the girl that I have loved for three became my girlfriend. Sure I was 16 (17 now) at the time but I truly loved her. She said she loved me and so did I. She was sick the first week we became girlfriend and boyfriend. So we couldn't go on dates. She would always say how she couldn't wait to go out with but when she got better every time I tried making plans she would give excuses why she couldn't. This lasted about a month. I really wanted it to work out but I was at my wits end. I mean A whole month and a half and still no first date!! Then one day I got on fb and saw a message that tore out my heart lit it on fire and stomped it to death... not only had she broken up with me through Facebook but her reason was she needed to focus on her schoolwork because I was too much of a distration for her... we never even hung out of school and we rarely saw each other at school. I of course poured my heart out but kept normal saying we can work it out, I can help with your schoolwork (not to brag but I make straight A's) but she just said I don't want this to drag on and just end it. I felt hollow empty inside I wanted to cry but nothing came out. I left like a gentleman told OK if that's what you need fine. I also said that you would have a friend in me but it seems you don't want me to be near so bye. Over the next days I started to feel better as if a wieght had been lifted. I felt happy which I didn't when I was with her. So its been about a month in a half since that happened and Here's WHERE MY QUESTION COMES IN she texted me asking me how I've been. What I'm doing. Talking to me as if it never happened (by the way for the past month in half I've ignored her compltely at school). My friends always say how she always looks at me when we walk past her in the halls with a sad look, which I never noticed until one of my friends told which frankly freaks me out. So I don't know what to do I don't want to talk to her or even be near her anymore.What she did to me is unforgivable and my feelins for her are gone both good and bad she is no one to me now. What do I do? Tell her go away please or what I'm not a but I don't want to associate with her ever again.

Please help me and thank so much for reading this if you did.

[m!sz89]

Don"t talk to her then... from the sounds of it you are only in high school and you are over it.. dont bring yourself back down by going back to the place you were when you were with her even after.. remember she couldnt even give you a real reason (i hope you didnt buy the whole schoolwork thing) an on top of that she did it online?? really tho?? let it go... stress over stupid stuff like this and you"ll never make it out of high school alive.. lol

[Kitkat22]

You all are very young and women change their minds a lot.

Be friendly but don't expect too much. If you make straight As


Then concentrate on that. There will be plenty of other girls in
The future. She may even be one of them. Don't sit around waiting for her. Hope I helped.:)

[overthinker]

don"t talk to her then... from the sounds of it you are only in high school and you are over it.. dont bring yourself back down by going back to the place you were when you were with her even after.. remember she couldnt even give you a real reason (i hope you didnt buy the whole schoolwork thing) an on top of that she did it online?? really tho?? let it go... stress over stupid stuff like this and you"ll never make it out of high school alive..lol

I didn't. I know I was prety shocked when she did it online thought she had more class than that. Thank you for the advice.

[overthinker]

You all are very young and women change their minds a lot.

Be friendly but don't expect too much. If you make straight As


then concentrate on that. There will be plenty of other girls in
the future. She may even be one of them. Don't sit around waiting for her. Hope I helped.:)

Thanks I won't ignore but I also won't get close. Just like seeing a regular person. Say hi and such but no more thanks for advice.

[Kitkat22]

You are a winner!