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    Feb 21, 2010, 11:06 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by unsurenow View Post
    well its been over nine weeks now,, the pain is still very much present. I still find myself crying and wishing he would wake up and see what he has done.Last text i got from him was over two weeks ago, the only thing i did was sent him an email link to a song that made me think of him, that was on Vday.its a song called I AM by Mary J Blige. You should check it out on you tube. He didn't respond and i really didn't want him to. I know my life is better without him, but i can't help but wonder how he can move on after being such an to me. I feel like every time a NEW chick came around, that i was demoted.I still haven't been able to feel happiness within, I'm still going thru nightmares and hope in my heart that he will see the light. I know its wishful thinking and that a person like him can not see the light if they don't see their mistakes and correct them.i just torture myself wondering if the NEW girl or girls, r getting the sweet man side and that he wont treat them like he did me,, and why me? i was good to this man.i would love to hear from someone who is or has gone thru the same feelings and thoughts, really don't want to hear what i know,,not to dwell,, i am not, just going thru the process an need to hear other that know what i mean.

    Thx
    Good Luck! Don't expect him to come back! Learn to love yourself, before jumping into another bad relationship. If he does come back will you let him back into your life? I hope not. It's hard being betrayed bysomeone you love,but you will get over it.
    Move on and remember you are not going to find a lasting relationship online or in a bar. Treasure Life! A lot the people on this site may have been through something
    Maybe a divorce or a bad breakup, but they got on with their lives. Forget this guy!
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    Mar 20, 2010, 08:10 AM

    I hope you are doing okay. I would like an update. Please update us. I am worried about you. And I am sure everyone on here is too.
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    Mar 20, 2010, 08:26 AM

    Forget about him. As long as you keep holding on to hope , the longer it will take to get over this guy! Lose his number!

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