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sindhu_thulani · Mar 9, 2010, 10:09 PM

I am married for 2 yrs & pregnant now.. My husband cares for me very little.he is always bothered about his mother.. he is worried about being away from his mother.. and takes her words more seriously.. my mother-in-law takes this as a advantage to play a leading role.she never allows me to go my mother's house,or any of my relatives function.. she strictly fights with me.. not to go.. my husband also goes with her words.. I hate my married life becoz of this 2 people.. he force me to talk to his mother daily even if I don't wish to talk.. I feel this as compulsion.. if this continues I have planned to live away... after my delivery... becoz she said after my child is born I should stay with her alone for 1 yr.. she will not allow me to go with my husband immediately after my delivery.. my husband also wish the same... Please help me.. how to avoid the situation.
She want my child also to be her side.. she said this frankly to my husband.. she is a cruel,criminal women... I hate her but I have to go with her... so what shall I do?

khurram khan · Mar 9, 2010, 11:54 PM

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rahluraj · Mar 10, 2010, 12:41 AM

Hi sindhu

What ever you have mentioned is a real serious issue which needs immediate attention.in my opinion its high time that you communicate this to your family because from what you have written I guess after the birth of the child the problem may only worsen so don't panic speak to your husband about it make him sit and tell him what you think about all this
Again speaking to you 1st family would help you a lot
God bless you and the child!

pooja s27 · Mar 10, 2010, 01:42 AM

Hi Sindhu,

Don't stress yourself first being pregnant you must take care of yourself as well, speak to your parents or your family about the problem, speak to your husband as well that what is happening is not good for your relationship and even the child that will be born, your family can be great support for you at this time speak you that its never late

talaniman · Mar 13, 2010, 08:18 PM

.I still love my ex boyfriend.I wish to talk to him.

That's not a good idea, as he is happy and with another. Leave him to that. Have a healthy child, and then talk to your husband about the future.

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From your other thread, I know you have been through much, and may go through a lot more, but for now you need your family and husband to support you and any changes must come later, over time.

Maybe he will allow your family more time with you through your pregnancy, especially if his mother can be made to be on your side in this. Talk to her, so you can understand what you want.

She doesn't have to be your enemy.