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    louise_2005 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 23, 2006, 11:10 AM
    How to tell him where "the spot" is?
    I haven't had sex yet but me and my ex boyfriend used to do a lot of foreplay he would finger me and he always played with my ****.. although he never made me orgasm<br>
    I've got a new boyfriend and now and he only seems to penetrate me with his fingers... I asked him if he knew where my **** was and he said he was clueless as I was a bit unsure I agreed that I was clueless too <br>
    I'm pretty sure its at the top of my vagina am I right? And how can I ask him politely with out embarrassing him how to stimulate it?
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    Sep 23, 2006, 11:58 AM
    Learn to stimulate it yourself, then show him during foreplay. You don't need any words, just guide his hand in the right direction.

    Yes, you are right in the location.
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    Sep 23, 2006, 12:41 PM
    For you to be with a guy and he is playing with your privates I don't think you have to worry too much about being polite as to how you want him to play wiwth your ****. Tell him where you think it is and as he does his thing tell him to move here, move there, up or down. Next I might even get a mirrow and both of you find it to together... it will be worth your time.
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    Dec 13, 2006, 10:51 AM
    You could always give him a private show of you masterbating and getting yourself off and he will see your reaction to what you do. Be adventurous with each other play games that bring change in the way you do things some rubbing some licking some sucking use oils feathers you could just come out and ask him if he would enjoy seeing you get soaking wet and do it for him so he see what's does it for you. Most men I know like their women to be sluts in private and a lady in public so they have treasured memories.
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    Dec 14, 2006, 10:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by cyberslider
    you could always give him a private show of you masterbating and getting yourself off and he will see your reaction to what you do. be adventurous with each other play games that bring change in the way you do things some rubbing some licking some sucking use oils feathers you could just come out and ask him if he would enjoy seeing you get soaking wet and do it for him so he see whats does it for you. Most men I know like their women to be sluts in private and a lady in public so they have treasured memories.
    True true how true. Show and tell is a wonderful thing, that is if you want to get it.:D
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