[myloveabhi]

Hi can u help me to get back my love??
We are together now, but his love is not here... he was my chatting friend we are just friends at that time but at that time he loved me a lot but I always back to that, he is working in US, he returned home last month after that we met first and our friendship is grown up to love, his father was not well that's y he returned home, he planned to marry after 1 yr but now his character has been changed our caste is different so our families never accept this relation and he is very attached with his family because of his fathers condition he want to break this relation but I know he love me a lot but he don't want to hurt me through his family... and he keep a distance with me now I can't accept this I can't live with out him... please tell me what to do??

[I wish]

Feelings change and you can't force him to fall in love with you. As harsh as this may be, you need to accept the truth.

[Larken85]

Sadly pressure from the family can much more easily drive you apart than you think it could. I am sorry but when a man sets his mind he may never change it. There are others out there.
However you might try giving him space for a bit. He is going through a rough time and you don't want to be to blame for making it worse or he'll leave sooner rather than later.

[talaniman]

I think you make better chat buddies as it seems he loves his family more than he loves you. That's a fact you better pay attention to, before you get carried away by intense feelings, and high expectations.

For one thing, you can live without him, you just don't want to.

[Devorameira]

Sounds like you already had 2 strikes against you with having a long distance relationship and family disapproval.

When you add him not being in love any longer that makes strike 3 and you're out. Move on and find someone who's family would approve and who lives closer to home.