[onexero6]

I am a 21 year old boy and having a relationship with my cousin. We stay in different cities. We were both committed to this relation until recently her mother build up doubts about us and threatened to commit suicide.

She is scared about the threats being serious but she loves me too. Im concerned about our relation. Please suggest how can we conceal our relation and be together at the same time. I love her very much. Please Help me... Please Please!!

[I wish]

Cousin = Off limits

What made you get into a relationship together in the first place? Where are you from?

[brittanygn]

Well for one if her mother is threatening suicide... she isn't serious. People who are on the verge of suicide do not tell people what they are about to do. This is just a scare tactic. If you too REALLY love each other and are committed to each other than it should not matter who is unhappy about the relationship. If her mother loves her than she should except her daughters decision and YOU TWO should think about just moving in some where together. IF you do not want any one to know you are in love and together I suggest you move somewhere affordable but away from everyone who will judge you. You two should not let anything get in the way of love. Her mother seems to just be trying to influence her by scaring her away from you. This is not uncommon, my mother threatened to kill herself over my sister when she finally confessed to being gay. My sister and her wife live happi;y together and my mother stays with them often... she will get over it once she realizes her selfish pleas of suicide are getting her no where.