[maggie04]

My boyfriend broke up with me after he found out that I was flirting with his friend, now he has given me another chance after I had begged and pleaded him. But he lost all his trust and love that he had for me. He has given me a chance to prove myself. I loved and love him so much and I really don't know why I flirted with the other guy. I had no intentions of cheating ma guy. Now its even harder for me to speak to ma boyfriend as he talks very formal and doesn't call or texts me. Whenever I call he gives me one word replies and says he is blank and lost all his love for me. What would I do?? Help me to gain his trust and love back. How to make him love me again??

[smerfetka]

He has to trust you- as I was advised- no trust= no relationship. You need to give him time. He cannot suddently change again and forget what happened. Talk to him, tell him that you will be patient as you understand how he may feel. Don't be however all over him, give him some space.

[Devorameira]

Trust is earned, and when you lose it because of something you’ve done it can take a long time to earn it back.

Give him a sincere apology for what you did and for hurting his feelings, and then ask HIM what you can do to get his trust back. Let him see it in your eyes how much you realize you hurt him and that you want to make amends.

If he can't get his head around that and start to trust you again after a couple of months, then he probably isn't able to forgive you. In that case you need to move on!

[talaniman]

The only way to get back lost trust is by doing the right thing over time. If he cannot understand that, you leave him alone, recognize your mistake, and don't repeat it, and move beyond him.

Whether you are with him or not. Its up to him to forgive you.