[wtf91]

Edited for spelling , grammar and understanding.

This past Friday, I spent the night with a guy whom Ive been friends with for quite some time, and Ive loved for the past 2 years. He lives a couple of hours away from me, so we only get to see each other a couple times a year. We talked daily online. There was a college party this past weekend, and he really wanted to go to both of them, he came alone on Friday, and our friends came on Saturday. I spent the night with my friend in hotel room. Last week he would text me at least once a day about something totally random, and talk online every night. He would always ask me what we were going to do and stuff. I guess u could say we are/were FWB? We've made out twice before this past weekend. Anyway, Friday we got as far as 2nd base (hands) and everything went swell. Then the next morning he was different. He didn't talk much, and watched TV. I tried to talk to him and he was one worded, and what not. We made a little bit, and that was it. That night at the party, he ignored me, he was a complete ****. I felt like he was annoyed with me, and what not. He didn't talk to me when we were alone, but in a group we were fine. I wasn't the only one who noticed that he was being an *** to me, his other 2 friends noticed it too. That night he gave me a ride home, and it was pretty silent throughout the whole ride. I asked him if everything was OK and he just replied that everything was fine, and that it got annoying by me asking him. Everything was not fine, he gave me attitude, and just he way he would talk to me clearly showed that he had a problem with me. Sunday after he got home, he didn't talk to to me that night. Last night I tried to talk to him, and it was fine when the discussion came to the weekend, and he just stopped responding... did I get played? What do I do? I love him ,and I wish I could make him see that, what he did was not right?

[dynocompe]

If your wondering why your not getting replies, its because you post hardly makes sense, please be considerate and proof read, at least spell check.

[Romefalls19]

Try writing this using proper English and you may get better results

[talaniman]

Its really obvious he was disappointed in his benefits from you after his two hour drive, and probably is making other plans for a more beneficial weekend with some one else.

Not saying he is right, or you should change, and give him more than you want to for his benefits, but he is getting tired of the FWB, and getting little benefit.

That's his problem, not really yours. I don't think its about love so much as lust.

[J. Sparks]

Sounds like after you only made it to second base, he realizes it's going to be too much bother and he's onto the next chick. A lot of guys are like that.

You have to ask yourself if you want someone like that anyway, even though your feelings are telling you something else. It's just your emotions. Don't let them rule you.

But y'know it's just a guess.. . Who knows where his head is at?
Maybe he just wants to get laid?

What is your age ? There's not much information to go on.

[talaniman]

This past Friday, I spent the night with a guy whom Ive been friends with for quite some time, and Ive loved for the past 2 years. He lives a couple of hours away from me, so we only get to see each other a couple times a year. We talked daily online.

I wonder with all that talking, if you ever defined if there were feelings for each other or not, or did you both just assume something. I'm wondering what kind of love you talk about, because there is a big difference between your version of love, and his feelings, and even friends with benefits, and make out buddies.

Clearly your not seeing what he does, or feeling the same, and after 2 years of talking online? Who is playing who here. I bet he feels played by you, for sure.

[amicon]

Two years of online talking doesn't mean you know each other and it seems you weren't on the same page when you met up.

Chalk this one up to experience and try dating local guys you can get to know in person rather than over the internet.