[idunnno]

We've talked everyday since we met around last October. We started liking each other in December, and told each other about it. I asked her if she sees us as having a thing, like where were basically going out but without a title. She agreed and said she thought that originally. So this has been going on for about two months. And the school winter formal has arrived. I wasn't able to go because I was grounded. This guy who just started talking to her, (who she thought was annoying at first) asked her to the dance. She said yes to be nice. Than I guess she became friends with him and since he clearly likes her, they've been talking a lot. I asked her how she felt about him and if he's going to come between us, and she said she hasn't thought about anything! WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? I thought since we had a thing it would mean were basically dedicated to each other, especially after we talked about it. I was going to ask her out, but I don't know how she feels about this other guy. She clearly likes me, but the question is, does she like both of us. Is there anythign I could do to take her eyes off this other guy? Any advice is great! Thanks.

[talaniman]

I asked her how she felt about him and if he's going to come between us,

Dumb question since your just dating without titles. That means your both free to date whomever you want.

and she said she hasn't thought about anything! WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?

It means she can date who she chooses to. Not a big deal.

I thought since we had a thing it would mean were basically dedicated to each other, especially after we talked about it.

Your friends who date, that's hardly a commitment and you have no title. Whatever you talked about I would think you were misinformed because all I see is you have only agreed that your dating without a title.

I was going to ask her out, but I don't know how she feels about this other guy.

Doesn't matter how she feels about him, ask her out and have fun.

She clearly likes me, but the question is, does she like both of us.

That's what dating is all about, not just talking, but going out and having fun while you get to know each other.

Is there anythign I could do to take her eyes off this other guy?

Ask her out, and know the choice is hers, so have a great time.

Talaniman Rule-Never worry about the competition. Focus on the goal, not the obstacles.

Your goal is to date, and have fun, not worry about a guy who has the same intentions as you do. Ask her out, and don't ask about him.

[whuddupcuteface5]

The fact that you are dating without a title means its an open relationship. Don't worry about this other guy ask her out have fun with your life. If she shows interest in you like you said then I'm sure she will say yes.