Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    Jmickle's Avatar
    Jmickle Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Feb 10, 2010, 12:27 PM
    Child abuse
    BF 24 cheated in the past with a 14 years old girl while with me. They held hands, kissed, and he fondled her breasts. He told her I love you. She sent him sexy photos but she had clothes on. They kept their relationship a secret from all their friends and met in secret. They broke up. He deleted all the photos, emails, and texts. She is now 17 turning 18 soon. Is this child abuse for fondling? Should he be reported? Now he now denies everything. Even though she consented to the dating isn't this still wrong. This is in NY. He's a doctor. Will his license be revolked. What are the consequences of reporting? Once she's 18, nothing can be done. Please help.
    ScottGem's Avatar
    ScottGem Posts: 64,966, Reputation: 6056
    Computer Expert and Renaissance Man
    		  
    #2

    Feb 10, 2010, 12:31 PM

    No it not child abuse its more likely statutory rape. And this guy sounds like a pedophile.

    The problem is you have no proof of your allegations. If youl go public with them, you could wind up in trouble.
    Jmickle's Avatar
    Jmickle Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Feb 10, 2010, 12:35 PM

    With technology these days, would the cell phone carrier be able to print out their text histories Or hotmail could retrieve deleted mails and photos? Is that enough.
    justcurious55's Avatar
    justcurious55 Posts: 4,360, Reputation: 790
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #4

    Feb 10, 2010, 12:45 PM

    Even if technology makes it possible, you wouldn't be able to get it. Hot mail and cell phone carriers won't give you personally any information. So you'd have to have some other proof to show to get someone with authority to maybe be able to get harder evidence.
    ScottGem's Avatar
    ScottGem Posts: 64,966, Reputation: 6056
    Computer Expert and Renaissance Man
    		  
    #5

    Feb 10, 2010, 02:59 PM

    We're talking 3-4 years ago. They may have different phones now and its unlikely their carriers kept records from that long ago. And I know Hotmail doesn't.
    twinkiedooter's Avatar
    twinkiedooter Posts: 12,172, Reputation: 1054
    Uber Member
    		  
    #6

    Feb 10, 2010, 04:04 PM

    If the girl wishes to press charges she can. You cannot do anything about it as you are not a party but an observer of this. Cell phone texts and pictures cannot be saved by the carrier. The only thing the cell carrier can do is say that someone with this phone sent a text message to that phone period or this phone called that phone for X many minutes.

    The man is going to do this again and he will be caught. It's just a matter of time until he is caught.

    Paedophiles don't just stop with one little girl or little boy.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Child abuse [ 3 Answers ]

I have a question this past fri me and my family all was coming back from walmart with groc and we all carried groc in to the house and also my step son went back out to the van to get more carried in and something happened and fell and broke his femor and had be taken to get sugery at the hosp.but...

Child Abuse [ 1 Answers ]

I need to have a thesis statement about child abuse but it has to be a claim of fact... How do I do this

Is this child abuse? [ 12 Answers ]

I am a single working mother. Where I work is also where I live. My child's father doesn't work and sits upstairs while I work downstairs with our child. My child was throwing a fit and was making it difficult for me to help our customers so I put him in his crib so I could finish my job. His...

Child abuse [ 7 Answers ]

I was abused as a child by my biological father, the question I have is how do I go about prosecuting him now??

Child on child sexual abuse [ 12 Answers ]

Hello, Today I found out that my 13 year old grand daughter touched another 13 year old boys penis. He is so tramatized by the ordeal and his mother is just sick. I'm am at a wits end as to how to handle the situation. Legally what should be done about this. The boys mom wants my grand...

View more questions Search