[rja_2009]

I have a boyfriend who is a little older than me, I LOVE HIM SO MUCH, and he doesn't really like kissing. I on the other hand LOVE to be kissed, I LOVE everything about it. I have tried talking to him about how I need to be kissed and that it is important to me. He gives me a lot more pecks now, which can be really unmeaningful. I think it gets bad when I have to ask for the deep meaningful kiss. So is there anything I can do that would make him like kissing more? Rather than just talk to him about it?

[Enigma1999]

Hello rja,

Have you sat down and talked to your boyfriend about it? Asking him why he doesn't initiate or kiss you passionatly?

[jaime90]

MAKING him kiss you will be about as meaningful as him not kissing you at all.

Asking him why he doesn't want to kiss you, is a good idea. You are probably like me, you show and receive love through physical affection- your boyfriend (like my fiance) probably doesn't. Both of you speak love in a different "language." I suggest learning what his is, and discussing how you can both fill up each other's "love tanks" by using your specific love languages.
And read "the 5 love languages" by Gary Chapman.