[mishanhussain]

I have been in love for more than 6 yrs. Allways we were together. We had all the stuffs. Last year I went abroad and when I returned she doest't care for me. She played a game and left me. I don't know what happened even. Now my full concentration on her only. I hate everything in this world. Please give me a solution.

[WhitePolish383]

Sweetie, you don't hate everything. Just right now you are feeling a lot of pain and hurt. I know how hard it is to get over someone you love. I can asure you she was not wasting six years of her life just to play a game. She obviously really did care for you. I know everyone says think about all the bad things that happened and you will get over it, but that doesn't always work with long term relationships. You might try talking to her. If you love her that much then fight for her. Don't let her get away that easy. But, if you feel even the slightest doubt in your love for her, then it is time for you to move on. It will take a lot of sweat and tears for you to move on but I promise that you will.

[dbdm0916]

Anger is usually a cover for fear... now don't get me wrong I am not saying you are afraid. I lived with anger for everybody and everything for years when my girl took her daughter and left. It wasn't until years later that I realized that I wasn't really angry... not deep down. I was afraid not for myself but for her. After years of having been her rock and solace. The person she turned to when she needed advice and comfort. Suddenly she wouldn't even talk to me. I worried about her constantly she was always on my mind. Then one day I saw her happy and healthy and it was like a switch got triggered in my brain. She's o.k... she is all right... The anger started to go away after that. I still miss her dearly but the anger isn't there anymore.

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Dbdm,if you would like advice on your own situation,please post your own thread,as this thread is from 2007.
Thanks.