[youngin4]

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OK I've been going through a lot. My ex girlfriend been treating me pretty bad. Like barely talk to me and don't want to be around me and I care a lot about the girl so that's why it hurts. But the thing that bugs me is that she told me the reason she broke up with me was because she didn't want to be in a relationship and she wanted to be with somebody who was close to her because she was able to leave our school. Well she never left and she is messing with this 1 guy and trying to get with him even though she said she didn't want a relationship and he don't live near her either. So she lied to me about that and I did trust her though and it hurts to be lied to. Just keep it real with me and I would have been fine. So it hurts right now and I want to move on if it seems like she isn't interested me anymore which I don't get how she can move on so quickly. And hurts that she has moved on and I haven't. We had a lot of deep moments and was very close and she was the 1 saying she loves me first den she can just move on like that. And it sucks cause I got class with her and lunch but I'm new to my school so I don't have anywhere else to sit except for with her and I don't really have friends here so I can't go out with the boys to get my mind off it. I don't have the gym right now because money is tight so we had to cancel my membership so I can't better myself with that. And there really isn't many girl that looks good at my school and the one that does look good are stuck up or taken up so I can't just casual date to move on. I just need some help on what I should do to move on from her because right now it seems like I got played even though I never did anything wrong to her to make her want to do this. And I'm wondering can a girl feeling go away that quickly and act like I never meant something in her life even though she told me some deep shyt in her life. So how do I move on when its like everything is against me moving on help please and thanks

[pureorganic]

Dude... this chick doesn't want anything to do with u... stop holding on its unhealthy... and for all the excuses you made why you couldn't move up are well... just plain lame excuses... your looking for others to make u happy... find it with in yourself. That is where you will find everlasting happiness. Go NC and heal.

[talaniman]

Your other posts were deleted for spelling, grammar, and chat/text!

If I were you, I would stop talking to her, and give yourself some time to get through this break up, so you can have a better attitude toward the other girls in your school, because as of now, you sound like you would be a poor partner for any one. Stop trying to talk to your ex, is where your healing starts.

Sorry for what you went through, and good Luck.