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    Jan 26, 2010, 12:10 PM
    My family wants to change my life
    Hi everyone,
    I'm an 18 girl, My parents left me when I was 4 and I live with my grandparents since then, now I'm in love and my father wants to take us apart because he's religious, not even him but my hole family even my uncles I don't know what to do help me
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    Jan 26, 2010, 12:15 PM

    We'll need more information.

    How is your parents still involved in your life when they left you at 4 years old?

    Are you still living at home?

    Are you religious yourself?

    Do you have a job? Are you financially independent? Do you have your own place?

    Are they against the idea of a boyfriend or are they against the idea that you might get married?

    What is the alternate choice? Are you suppose to have an arranged marriage?
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    Jan 26, 2010, 12:27 PM
    Yes we definitely need more information. In addition to the questions "I wish " asked, I was wondering:

    Has the boy you are seeing has ever been in trouble?

    Has he ever been married?
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    Jan 26, 2010, 12:48 PM
    They left me because they get divorced and everyone of them want to get marry again since then I live at my grandparents house but they are so contoling, I hate staying here .

    They are against the idea of having a boyfriend.

    I don't know why my father wants to enter my life, I think he regrets and he's trying to solve the problems but he's making things worst
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    Jan 26, 2010, 01:14 PM

    Sounds like your in a tough spot. When I was a teen, my parents were very against me having a girlfriend, it was something hard to overcome and hurt my self-esteem.

    Have you asked your grandparents why they do not want you to have a boyfriend?
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    Jan 26, 2010, 01:21 PM

    They are so religious (we are muslims) and they think that any relationship with any guy is wrong and I mustn't do it, they don't let me to talk to my classmates, imagine if he's a boyfriend
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    Jan 26, 2010, 01:27 PM

    When I get back from class I hope there's more information on this thread baceuse I'm kind of interested in where it's heading. Sounds kind of strange.
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    Jan 26, 2010, 01:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    When I get back from class i hope there's more information on this thread baceuse i'm kind of interested in where it's heading. sounds kind of strange.
    I want to know what kind of information do you need
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    Jan 26, 2010, 02:02 PM

    Go back and read I wish's post,he's asking the relevant questions.
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    Jan 26, 2010, 05:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by DawnQ View Post
    I want to know what kind of information do you need
    Just more detalis. Like how old you guys are, why they're against it, What's wrong with the boyfriend, if anything and anything else that might help.
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