[Haylee95]

Ohkaii I'm only 14 turing 15 in a few months. I really really like this guy his name is Tyler.We used to talk all the time during english,usually small talk nothing big.One day not to long ago I convinced myself it would be a good idea to ask him out,because we flirted all the time and eveyone always told me you guys look so cute together.So in english I wrong him a note askn him a simple question just to start the conversation.but right before I waz about to ask him out I skied myself out and told him never mind I forgot what it was but he kept buggn me about it and just wouldn't let it go. So he texted me later askn me again what I waz going to ask him I told him to never mind and that it was nothing. So while we were textn each other I took the note that we were passing and read it over ,and in my head when he put smiley faces everywere I kind of though that maybe he did like me. So when he asked again I told him that I waz going to ask him out but I didn't and that waz all then I don't know what happened he said c u in school and I said something else he got mad and we haven't really spoken since. Its been about 3 weeks since we have really talked and its hard not talkn to him.

What should I do just let it go and never talk to him again,because he said not to text him ever again?
Or try and fix things?

[Wondergirl]

If you would write that in clear and correct English (without texting and with some punctuation), I'll do my best to answer in a helpful way.

[Haylee95]

Ohkaii I'm only 14 turing 15 in a few months. I really really like this guy his name is Tyler.We used to talk all the time during english,usually small talk nothing big.One day not to long ago I convinced myself it would be a good idea to ask him out,because we flirted all the time and eveyone always told me you guys look so cute together.So in english I wrote him a note askn him a simple question just to start the converasation.but right before I was about to ask him out I skied myself out an told him never mind I forgot what it was but he kept buggn me about it and just wouldn't let it go. So he texted me later askn me again what I waz going to ask him I told him to never mind an that it was nothing. So while we were textn each other I took the note that we were passing and read it over ,and in my head when he put smiley faces everywere I kind of though that maybe he did like me. So when he asked again I told him that I was going to ask him out but I didn't and that waz all then I don't know what happened he said see you in school an I said something else he got mad and we haven't really spoken since. Its been about 3 weeks since we have really talked and its hard not talkn to him.

What should I do just let it go and never talk to him again,because he said not to text him ever again?
Or try and fix things?

[Haylee95]

Do guys like blond hair or brown hair better?

[Haylee95]

There is a guy in my class that's always staring at me and smiling,but he likes to call me names and stuff like today he called me a B***h! but then he smiled at me like he was just kidding...

What should I doo??

[XOXOlove]

Guys like any color hair. Not all guys are the same and not all guys care about hair color. Some like all hair. Some like brown hair. Some like blonde hair and some like black hair or red hair, or purple hair.

[rosemcs]

Ignore him. Why would you want to show interest in a guy that disrespects women?

[Romefalls19]

What should you do?

Punch him in the mouth for calling you that. And then politely say "I got your b**** right here"

[amicon]

Ignore him.
If anyone called me names I wouldn't speak to them.
Avoid the jerk.

[XOXOlove]

The guy is an idiot. Guys like that think that girls start to like them if they tease them. Just ignore him.

[Wondergirl]

Oh! You mean like this? --

I'm only 14, but will turn 15 in a few months. I really, really like this guy; his name is Tyler. We used to talk all the time during English (usually small talk -- nothing big).

One day not too long ago, I convinced myself it would be a good idea to ask him out. We flirted all the time, and everyone always told me, "You guys look so cute together!" So in English, I wrote him a note asking him a simple question just to start the conversation. But, but right before I was about to ask him out, I said, "Never mind. I forgot what it was."

He kept bugging me about it and just wouldn't let it go. He texted me later, asking me again what I had I been about to ask him. I told him, "Never mind -- it's nothing." While we were texting each other, I took the note that we were passing and read it over. It came to me, when he put smiley faces everywhere, that maybe he DOES like me! So, when he asked again, I said that I planned to ask him out, but I didn't after all.

I don't know what happened then. He said, "See you in school," and I said something else that made him mad. We haven't really spoken since (for about 3 weeks). It's hard not talking to him.

What should I do -- just let it go and never talk to him again? He said not to text him ever again. Or should I try to fix things??

Now, don't those corrections look much better, and aren't they more interesting? It almost sounds like it could be the beginning of a Twilight sequel!!! Is Tyler really a vampire in training, and does he want to indoctrinate Haylee so he will get extra points from the warlock?

Here's my advice -- Sure, talk to him again, but just casually like school buddies. Get back into your goofing-around-in-English-class chatter (but don't get the teacher mad).

At this point in your life, you want to be good buddies with lots of guys. (I was the local tomboy, and the guys let me play ball and other games with them.) Learn how they talk to each other (sports, cars, pets, food, girls), and get them to feel confident about you and comfortable when you're around. It will pay off big-time once you start dating.

[Lexilulu]

Guys can get shy whenever a girl says they want to go out/like him... I did that with my friend Matt one day **just for fun** and he flat out Ignored me for three days... I asked him why and he said "I was just nervous because I thought you liked me"... So Idk if this helps:)

[Haylee95]

Yeah sort of haha thanks.

[Haylee95]

He already knows I like him,and he's been egnoring me for the past week or so we only give passing glances.But oh well its his loss any way I guess it's a good things I like aonther guy too at the moment..

[Haylee95]

Ohkaii thanks (: