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    MeeDee23 Posts: 36, Reputation: 10
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    Dec 3, 2006, 10:37 AM
    Passion Re-ignited!
    Ignore this post... sorry for any confusion. Thanks
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    Dec 3, 2006, 02:50 PM
    How about enjoying yourself, and the life you have without her? Seems to me waiting for someone who may or may not call or comeback is a waste, but living life is something that makes us better.
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    Dec 3, 2006, 02:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by MeeDee23
    I still think the best thing to do is wait until she is done exams and see if she contacts me (which I think she will). I'm just worried she'll make her mind up on me before I can show her the NEW me. I'm doing my best to stay positive and improve myself every day, but the waiting is the hardest part. I just need to do what I can for myself in the mean time.

    Any advice on where to take it from here?
    You've pretty much hit it on the head. Let her "discover" the new you as opposed to you trying to show her. When you finally do see her, be passionate, light-hearted and don't put any pressure on her whatsoever regarding any type of future plans for a relationship. Meanwhile, be busy and involved with activities that are of interest to you. Law School is surely keeping her plenty busy so keep busy yourself.
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    Dec 3, 2006, 03:40 PM
    You can't make her discover the new you. She must discover it for herself. By doing so that will create attraction with in her. You need to enjoy your new fond freedom and act as though she gave you a new sense of self and purpose by leaving you. To let her back in your life is something she must do and work for. If you go the other way and force yourself on her you've done nothing for yourself and pushed her away forvever.
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    Dec 3, 2006, 03:55 PM
    You can't make her discover the new you. She must discover it for herself. Why not take your new self-discoveries and share them with a new girlfriend? After her exams she may be even more confidant in herself than she was before. Just a thought.
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    Dec 3, 2006, 04:04 PM
    I agree, your new found self is better to find somebody else that will know you for you and who you are now, will make a world of difference.

    Honestly after a break, it is better to move on.

    It is all up to you what you do, it is your final decision to make what is best for you.
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    Dec 3, 2006, 07:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by MeeDee23
    ignore this post......sorry for any confusion. Thanks
    I think someone didn't like our answers.
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    Dec 3, 2006, 07:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by chuff
    I think someone didn't like our answers.

    No that's not it at all... I just summed up my latest situation and put it in another post. I deleted this post so as not to confuse people as to what is going on with my situation. Sorry for the confusion.
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    Dec 3, 2006, 07:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by MeeDee23
    no that's not it at all....I just summed up my latest situation and put it in another post. I deleted this post so as not to confuse people as to what is going on with my situation. Sorry for the confusion.

    My bad. I apologize for assuming that. I've seen it before where people don't like the answers so they delete the post and say they've got it covered. Again, I'm sorry about that.
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