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    Bigg Dogg13 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 19, 2010, 01:07 PM
    Like her but has a boyfriend
    There's this girl I met on Facebook igot her cell number the first time we talked I flirted with her and 2 days later I told her we should meet up sometime she said it would be cool then I asked her when she would be available then she just mentions that she has a boyfriend. I still flirt with her and every time I say something sweet she says aww. Once I told her if I could go bak in time I would go bak when she was single. Her response was "me too". Exactly in those words . Now I tell herr I love her as a friend and she says it bak to me but what she doesn't know is that I love her more than a friend. I try 2 sweet talk her 2 c if she would leave her boyfriend or something. But she says she loves him and they have been going out for 4 months. And I told 1 of my friends and he says if I like her that much we should go beat up her boyfriend at his school. The girl told me his name his grade and his school.
    What should I do?

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html

    Please use proper English. No text talk. No chat speak.
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    Jan 19, 2010, 01:09 PM

    If a girl/boy is in a relationship/dating/engaged/married, she/he is not available. Period.

    She is in a relationship.

    People do what they want to do. If she wanted to break up with her boyfriend, she would.

    Don't pursue a girl that is in a relationship. It just turns out bad for everyone involved.
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    Jan 19, 2010, 01:26 PM

    OFF LIMITS... No other advice is necessary.
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    Jan 19, 2010, 01:29 PM

    I agree with everything that Historian said. But also do you really want to be with someone that has no problem leaving their current relationship for a new one? What makes you think she wouldn't do the same to you if you started dating?

    And for your friends "advice" of going to beat him up that is just stupid. Say you do beat him up that is not going to cause them to break up that is going to cause you and your friend to be arrested.
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    #5

    Jan 19, 2010, 01:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Bigg Dogg13 View Post
    nd i told 1 of my friends nd he says if i like her that much we should go beat up her boyfriend at his school. the girl told me his name his grade nd his school.
    wat should i do?
    "Beat up"? How old are you?

    Either way, relationship = off limits. Find someone who is actually single.
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    Jan 19, 2010, 04:46 PM

    If I were you I'd learn how to write and spell instead of wanting to "beat up" a random innocent person.

    Grow Up!!
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    Jan 19, 2010, 05:32 PM

    Well, I read your title and thought I had my answer ready I really did. I was right on the same lines as everyone else... well she's taken and you should leave her alone.


    But now that I read your most eloquent post and I can see that your really do care so much about this girl... hmm, should I continue or have you grasped the sarcasm?

    First of all you don't know this girl, and second you don't know this guy!!

    Leave them both alone.
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    Jan 19, 2010, 05:41 PM

    Back off - she's already taken. You're just setting yourself up to be hurt.

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