[bowlingbabe16]

Well I was going out with this really nice guy but there was a problem... he was a smoker and I hated him smoking but we were only going out a month. But he broke up with his ex girlfriend for me. Anyway we were always flirting and I really liked him A lot I think I might have even loved him. But he broke up with my because his ex called him and her and her boyfriend broke up and she wanted him back well he called me and told me what she said and so I asked if he liked her still and he said yea then I asked if he cared about me and he said of course he does he loves me more then anything. And then he was like but I'm just confused right now and I don't want a girlfriend right now. And can we take a break and I was like yea. But he was like well I just want you to know I love you more then anything. And also he didn't want to lose the chance of us ever going out again. And I still love him a ton. And I know he still loves me. But I think he might take his ex back. So what do I do?

[Bluerose]

Leave him to her and the smoking and go mix with some healthy, happy people.

[J_9]

Which guy are you talking about? Is it the guy you are messing with or the one who is your boyfriend? I got confused after reading this thread.

[s_cianci]

Stay away and have no contact with him whatsoever. Give him the impression that he's lost you for good. That may make him miss you and get him calling you again. He may have second thoughts about his ex and letting you go.

[bowlingbabe16]

Which guy are you talking about? Is it the guy you are messing with or the one who is your boyfriend? I got confused after reading... my boyfriend the guy I was messing with that story was a long time ago... I just wanted to see if I did the right thing

[oblit]

If the guy went back with his ex, does that really say that he's the self-confident, cool guy you want to like? Just a question you should ask...