[junglebabilova]

When I have sex with my boyfriend it feels good and everything, but once he comes and pulls out I feel something wet come out of me like I'm peeing, but never had an orgasm. What is this??

[Cat1864]

How old are you? Are you using condoms?

[junglebabilova]

18 and no

[neverme]

I'm sorry I don't mean to be condescending... but at 18 you don't understand the basics of the male anatomy?

You use the phrase 'come', well that is a euphemism for 'ejaculate'... an abrupt discharge of fluid. It is this fluid that you feel exiting your body and has nothing got to do with the female orgasm, it is the product of the male orgasm.

A word of warning: this fluid travels to your womb and if there is an egg present, fuses with it to make a baby. If this is not an outcome you wish for and are capable of handling you should be using contraceptives.

Also, without a condom you risk contracting STI's and that is not something anyone is looking for, so my advice would be to start using a condom unless you want to end up with a child and possibly a disease.

[junglebabilova]

@ neverme you wasn't helpful at all I knew that already, mayb I should be more clearer this happens when I masturbate 2, now answer that!

[neverme]

It is most likely then that you are experiencing a female ejaculation, though I am not an expert I am simply volunteering advice.

Also it seems that if you are worried about your health you are under the wrong topic.

There is no need to be stroppy. I was trying to help.

Chat speak isn't allowed on this site.

You should include all information in your original post in order to get the most accurate answer possible.

[Cat1864]

@ neverme you wasnt helpful at all i knew that already, mayb i should b more clearer this happens when i masturbate 2, now answer that!

Part of what you are feeling is lubrication. When you are aroused, your body produces fluids that reduce friction during intercourse. Have you ever heard the phrase "cream her panties"?

Depending on your position those fluids can pool inside the vagina when you are masturbating. When you move or relax the muscles in the pelvic area, it can cause the fluids to 'gush'.

During intercourse, some of the fluids are 'pumped' out, but some stay inside and are expelled with the seminal fluid.

Some of it may also be female 'ejaculate'.

If you feel that it is excessive or there is a strong odor or you have any concerns that we may be wrong, see your doctor. Only he/she can give you a diagnosis. We can only give you information based on your posts.

[Synnen]

My answer is this:

If you are 18, then you know how ADULTS type.

Any more chat speak will cause this entire thread to disappear.

[smoothy]

OK, you are 18(or claim to be), use no protection, aren't married...

In case you were out smoking when they taught sex ed in school. There are uncurable STD's out there... Herpes, and AIDS (which will kill you) yet you still have upprotected sex with people you barely know... and yeah, at 18 you can't possibly know him all that well or who he's been with.

Just as a wakeup call, Its not just gays and drug users that have AIDS. In fact most people are hetero, and most did not use protection. And you can't guess by looking at them if they have it or not. Multiply that by the slow incubation time... someone can sleep with a LOT of unprotected people and infect them before anyone knows they have it. Its like the six degrees of separation thing...

THAT can not be stressed enough.


And the odds of it being Female ejaculation as commented above is VERY, VERY small. Maybe 1% of the women are even capable of it at all, no you don't learn it and no you just don't do it. And it isn't urinating like so many porn movies pretend it is.

[Alty]

@ neverme you wasnt helpful at all i knew that already, mayb i should b more clearer this happens when i masturbate 2, now answer that!

I want to address this.

We are all volunteers on this site. We can only give you answers based on the info you give us. We can't read your mind.

Neverme gave a very accurate answer based on what you wrote in your original post.

Also, saying "now answer that!" is very rude. We don't have to answer you, we choose to, but if this attitude keeps up you may find that no one is willing to help you. We don't get paid, so why would we put up with rudeness?

Chat speak isn't a language, it's a short cut for people too lazy to type out full words and use complete sentences. If you're 18 then you know how to write properly, so do. This is an international site, it's hard enough for English speaking people to decipher chat speak, but for someone that doesn't speak English well, it's impossible.

There, lecture over. :)