[arcura]

talaniman,
No cheap shot.
If you love God and His word, then the morals he prefers are in the book.
When it comes to homosexually and bestiality God's word says that they are a moral no-no.
Peace and kindness,
Fred (arcura)

[talaniman]

talaniman,
No cheap shot.
If you love God and His word, then the morals he prefers are in the book.
When it comes to homosexually and bestiality God's word says that they are a moral no-no.
Peace and kindness,
Fred (arcura)

You find Gods word in a book, and I find it through a personal relationship. That was a low cheap shot in my opinion.

[samsclub]

My friend married a guy that could not make up his mind about his sexual desires. They got married have a baby boy and he is now cheating with men behind her back and it has caused so much grief. I would suggest that if you do marry- then be done with the homosexual lifestyle. My friend is in terrible pain, her husband never really desired her- she was used as a cover for his "gayness" and now he is confused to divorce or not. Seek a counselor maybe he/she will help you discover what you really want.

[shadyslady313]

Well I'm glad some agree with me and whoever doesn't doesn't its myopinion and its not going to change.. thanx everyone that has stuck up for me when that comment "arcura"made..

[arcura]

shadylady,
I agree with you that few if any will change there opinion about homosexuality.
Some hate gays, but I think most who oppose that life style do not hate them.
Many people think that practicing homosexuality is not OK, as you and some others apparently do.
Bantering back and forth about that may not change much, but it does some good. We get to experience different point of view and I think that is of value
.

[ER_El_Rey]

If you are so sure you are 99% homosexual be you and do you if you like men then you should just see men don't mess around with girls just to show you are somedody you are not because you are just going to hurt the girls you do this with.

I think you should just tell your friends about your sexuality because if they are really your friends they would not care if you are gay.

I have gay and lesbians friends and they are pretty cool people, so I am sure that if your buddies don't acept you you will find nicer people that will acept you and understand you.

About the marrige thing, I am not the best person to say anything about it because I don't believe that you have to be married to live happy with someone for x amount of years or the rest of your life. I personaly see marage as a piece of paper and a big party.

[arcura]

ER_El_Rey
You gave some good advice about friends in that post.
But,
Marriage is a lot more than a piece of paper and a party.
It's a documented 2 way legal and moral commitment of love, sharing, and caring; and if performed in a religious ceremony it is blessed by God.

[ER_El_Rey]

arcura I totally agree with you on the marriage piece am just too hard headed to admit it.

But am just too dam young to look at marriage as a very serious and important part of life.

I currently attend college and trust me marriage is the last thing in my mind!

Maybe ten years from now I'll think about marrige as a moral commitment.

We all know that as we get older we change our minds about a lot of things about life.

[Lies]

You Are Normal... being Bi Or Gay Or Tanssexual Doesn't Mean Ur Not Normal.. it Jst Means Your Different From Str8 People Jst As Str8 People Are Different From Gay/bi/transsexuals~~~

Thts All U Need To Knw Before U Question Ur Sexuality And The Fact Of Being Normal..

[Choux]

Fred, I'm so glad to see you after all these years! You are so darling, my man. How can I be mean to you ever again? Can't. I feel like we are old friends, not opponents.

We do disagree about everything, though. :D

OOPS, Fred posted long ago... :D

[N0help4u]

I was just about to do the same
I was like THERE'S FRED!!
Then it quickly turned into THERE WAS FRED!

Anyway, sounds like you ARE gay but wanting to please others yet want to live out the 'normal' life you were taught to believe in.

[Choux]

LOL! I got to watch the dates; Fred should come back!

[arcura]

Choux,
Gandhi was very right about that.
It is sad the Obama has not and can not fit into that mold.
On top of that comparing his voting record and what he is now saying it is obvious that he can NOT be trusted.
His total days working in congress up till the end of his fight to win enough delegates was just 146. He claims he has experience enough to run this country. That is a big laugh.
That man very much frightens me.

[arcura]

I'm sorry that I have been gone so long.
I forgot my password and for some reason up till now I could not get help about that from Ask Me Help Desk.
They just gave me a NEW password so I'm back, and pleased to be so.
Peace and kindness,
arcura (Fred)

[Credendovidis]

I'm sorry that I have been gone so long.

Hello Fred ! Welcome back here, buddy ! How's the body doing?

:D

[Credendovidis]

hey im 21 m from australia. ever since i was like 12 ive been sexually active towards other guys ive had sex with girls but i dont like it..it dosent satisfy me at all. but i want the straight life wife,kids,house and it all but i just can't do it.
all my friends are homophobics and hate gays but they accept me ....im 99 percent sure im gay well ive been with alot of guys and only bout 6 girls... i never fantisise about woman only guys..... and ive only recently told my parents and they have never brought it up since i told them

But dear "wannabenormal" : you ARE or at least seem to be "normal".
All that differs is your sexual preference. But is that relevant? Not to me, though I am straight as can be.
All you have to do is be a little more realistic : if you have a homosexual preference, accept that wife and kids are not one of your possibilities, or at least not a fair possibility.

So find a guy you like and can love, and develop a permanent relationship.
And replace the unrealistic wish for kids with the possible presence of animals. A dog or cat, or whatever else you appreciate.

You simply can not have it all. Either it is the one scenario, or it is the other. A mixture of the two would always be at the expense of the people involved. Not fair to them!

Success and good luck!

[Synnen]

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