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lolwow · Jan 5, 2010, 12:33 PM

Hey I had sex yesterday night,
I didn't ejac but she said 5 min after we started that she was supposed to wait 2 weeks after her birth control injection. It has been 5 days.
She took a controceptive.

I'm just wondering what the chances are I pre ejaced or w,e?

What should we do what are the odds now?

lolwow · Jan 5, 2010, 12:37 PM

She also woke up with cramps and she said usually she gets her cycle 2 days after cramps but doesn't know if these are different

Metalhead11592 · Jan 7, 2010, 07:52 AM

Hello lolwow,
I'm not a professional but I'll tell you that having sexual intercourse before she was soposed to by the order of her birth control injection. I would say you should wait a little bit before jumping to conclusions. Also I think that you should consider her going to a local clinic if possible to get other options. I really hope for the best my friend. Good luck

KISS · Jan 7, 2010, 08:40 AM

You have 72 hours to decide whether Plan B would be the right choice: Plan B® One-Step: Home

jaysie90 · Jan 11, 2010, 01:02 AM

First off, do not engage in anymore sexual activity until the two week marker has been passed. And it was really stupid and immature of her to not say it. Pulling out is NOT effective. ALL throughout intercourse semen drips out of your penis. You need to use condoms, and still use condoms after the 2 week mark. Continue for about a month. And you said she took a contraceptive? I assume it was Plan B, a.k.a the morning after pill? If she took it within 72 hours after the sex the chances of conception have been reduced. The faster the take the pill the more effective it is, and the longer you wait the less effective it becomes. Make sure from now until next month you use condoms! It is extremely important. And a month from now have her take a pregnancy test to make sure she isn't pregnant. If it is positive make an appointment to see her doctor to confirm. Good luck.

Clough · Jan 11, 2010, 04:12 AM

Hi, lolwow!

You've posted your question in the Teens forum topic area.

I'm not trying to be judgmental, but just trying to get some idea as to what's going on.

How old are the each of you, please?

Thanks!

KISS · Jan 11, 2010, 09:46 PM

Califdadad3:

Poor choice of words then. The answer wasn't blatently wrong and I don't think I deserved the bad rep for not using "You and your partner" rather than "you".

I usually think of posters as a single entity, not plural. One user name. One poster.

cdad · Jan 13, 2010, 02:18 PM

Originally Posted by KeepItSimpleStupid

califdadad3:

Poor choice of words then. the answer wasn't blatently wrong and I don;t think I deserved the bad rep for not using "You and your partner" rather than "you".

I usually think of posters as a single entity, not plural. One user name. One poster.

What you have to understand is that something like "planB" isn't an option at all to the OP. The OP is male and has no rights to the GF's reproductive process. He can discuss it but he can't make her take it just as he can't force any birth control on her. He can do his own thing to protect his future. But really the rest isn't for him to say.

cdad · Feb 4, 2010, 09:16 AM

Eclipse1220 disagrees : We do understand that. Did you read the post at all? They were saying there is Plan B, an option for the COUPLE.
Give yours Agree Disagree *Required*

Its obviouse you don't understand how the real world works nor do you understand about women's reproductive rights. Maybe you would be better off doing some actual research and see for yourself. The " man " has no rights in this situation and its up to the woman to decide. It has already been explained. If you think it is wrong then become a lawyer and go fight it out in the Supreme Court.