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Feels betrayed
I was in a happy relationship with my BF but I found out he is doing my best friend who calls herslef a lesbian behind my back, I walked in on them and walked right back out, they didn't notice.About 20 minutes a ago I found pictures and sexual messages on his phone from a 16 year old, he responded with she wirtes stoires we here improvising, he's 25! He's blaming my borerline personality disorder for my reaction I was upset and angry and he made it sound like my fault, I now feel like , my best mate/room mate was on his side.. . I don't see how its OK.. . I don't have the option of moving out as I don't have any where to go please help
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Dear Rose, I feel so terrible for you my heart was simply torn at the sight of your post. I think the best thing would be to try to look for a new roommate and or a family member to try to stay with for a while. I think that you need to try to stop making contact with them both to prevent the damage that you have been dealing with to discontinue. |
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Oh course is trying to make you look the crazy one but you will be crazy to continue to stay in this situation. For your own piece od mind get out>>saty in a shelter if you have to but leave. Also, dump the friend because she isn't a friend at all if she have slept with your so called man. It is a new year and you deserve a lot better. |
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I had a look over your other threads,the whole thing is very confusing,example, your gay,but pretending to be straight? Or your gay? On your last thread you were living with your mother? I'm not having a go at you,just trying to figure out the story,if you could clear up a few things it would help posters give you the advice that may help. |
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Originally Posted by RoseMortem
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Your really in a bit of bother,can you call and explain you need help. It seems things have not been going too well for a while (going by your other threads).. you need to take stock and get help to sort this out. You can't do all this on your own,how about an aunt? Have you burned ALL the bridges? |
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I don't think your crazy,and I agree your stuck... How about a local hostel or shelter? A GOOD friend? As regards your family,if things have gotten as bad as you say,there must have been a build up and/or a lot of second chances... You might have a lot of making up to do and trust to build. Have you tried your mother again? |
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