[1993Joe]

Hi, you have probably seen people in my situation all the time, but I am in love with this girl, and I have never felt this way about anyone before. We have been friends for quite along time, but recently I've started to like her more than just friends. I think about being with her, and want to spend the rest of my life with her.

She is SO hard to read. Sometimes she seems like she likes me more than just friends, and then the next minute I wonder if she even likes me as a friend. I think that this may just be me though.

There is another guy on the scene. Its one of my matess... they used to go out before I knew her. He is probably the most popular guy in our year at school. Were mates, but I don't know if he actually likes her or not. It's the same with her. I get the feeling she doesn't really like him.

I care about her so much and she means so much to me and I just want her to be happy. The other day we were hugging, and then next thing you know we started to kiss. It wasn't full on, but it was quite passionate and meaningful I think, but I just really don't know what to do.

I don't know if I will be able to get over her, and I don't want too, I think there could be something there, what shall I do?

[talaniman]

You ask her out, and see how it goes and after dating for a while you get a feel for if she feels like you do, or not.

How old are you both?