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    johhnyB Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 17, 2009, 11:16 AM
    Girlfriend won't answer my calls
    OK, I have been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks now and it was all going really great. We both had a great time together, then all of a sudden she won't respond to my calls. I called and texted her and no relpy, then tried to call the next day too, and still no response. Im not sure what to do?!
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    Dec 17, 2009, 11:20 AM

    If she's not answering, she either
    a. is too busy to pick up your phone calls... a.k.a. putting you on the back burner.
    b. doesn't want to talk.

    You really only have one option: Stop nagging by calling and texting and wanting her to respond, and wait for her... Thats your only choice, is to wait for her to contact you. By calling and texting all the time, you come off as needy and clingy- and it's only 3 weeks in... It's a wonder she's not responding! If she ever does pick up, I would talk about a few things- there's a good chance she's blowing you off.
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    Dec 17, 2009, 11:22 AM

    Hello Johnny,

    Also, she might have decided that she doesn't like you that much and is too chicken to admit it to you, or maybe there was an emergency, and nobody called you. Not trying to worry you, but it's possible.

    Thanks.
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    Dec 17, 2009, 11:42 AM

    No use in figuring it out. You know she has your phone number, so she'll call if she wants to.
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    Dec 17, 2009, 11:42 AM
    For whatever reason she has not responded, leave her alone. She shows no courtesy, or respect to the great time you had so forget her. No more futile effort by you to see what the deal is, as her actions are that you do not count.

    How hard is a text?? A phone call?
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    Dec 17, 2009, 12:03 PM

    You do nothing-chalk it up to experience and move on.
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    Dec 17, 2009, 01:02 PM

    That could be her way of "nicely" saying she doesn't like you like that. Stop calling her. If she wants to talk to you she will call you, but I wouldn't stress over it. Move on... you got a life to live!
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    Feb 8, 2010, 01:31 PM

    I want to know.. Did she called you back?? What happened??
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